seriously... but on the same note she did tell him it wasnt necessary so either he thought she was just being polite or very independent but he obviously didnt get it. Im like this too i mean if i like a girl i wanna be the perfect gentlemen but ladies... try to be a little more blunt... talk about ur boyfriend or talk about a guy (make him up) that u went out on a date which saves us the embarrasment of u having to lewdly say "i got a man, i had a great time though can u spend money on me again?"