1st of all, how old is your friend gonna be, what kind of music does she like, and what kind of scene is she into? - fabulous, chi-chi, celeb lounges? (i.e. lotus, filter 14, the light, halo) - places with great music? (abaya, liquids, plant) - places you can go with a bunch of people and just get down? (fun) - or big clubs (sf, world, exit)?