No I am saying it is what it is....and nice to have something different in SSH then the same old stupid white party etc...everyone has to bash SSH all the time but yet people still come...not everyone can go to Miami...no its nto the same as SSH but SSH still is a lot of fun...its all abotu who u surround yourself with...I have been to both SOBE and SSH and hands down I have had better times in SSH b/c I am with all my friends