Actually, believe it or not many of us go to hear an admired DJ work his talent. Personally, I don't have much money to flaunt (High school), and I'm not that built to even flaunt anything sexual. Also, Centro on Saturdays costs only $15. Vinyl might go to $25. That's not exactly exorbitant. I think you're going to deep with this. If you go to a bar often, have you bettered yourself? If you go to a movie every so often have you really done that much great in your life? No one goes to clubs to find a mate. Simply, clubbing is just a pastime. Chill out.