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  1. Question for the guys

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    Actually, I'm not blonde at all (neither literally nor figuratively). its just that religion/ethnicity may not be an issue at the beginning of a relationship but becomes an issue as the relationship progresses. A lot of people dont care abolut the religion/ethnicity of the person they date, but may care about the religion/ethnicity of the person they end up with

    are you blond?

    why after 4 years would all of a sudden her religion/ethnicity be a problem?

    don't get me wrong though...it was tough at times. I was lucky though cause her parents were pretty Americanized so they accepted pretty quickly. But I remember I couldn't really meet her entire family for a long time, like over a year or so (which I didn't mind anyway).

    But no, we broke up because we both turned into alcoholics who abused each other whenever we got drunk :D

  2. Question for the guys

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    that is a great story...hope things did not end between you guys b/c of the religion/ethnicity thing

    Funny Story:

    I started seeing someone years ago, she was actually from Iran (Persian-Muslim). We were dating for about a month, her name was so and so and she had a best friend named so and so. Anyway, we were driving around her neighborhood in Great Neck one night just chillin, blazin with a couple of her other girlfriends and they started calling her by some other weird name (it was her real Persian name). I was like, "why do you keep calling her that" and she kind of just looked at me like "oh fuck"! To make a long story short, her and her friend made up there own american names when they were in high school and they just stuck and she never got around to telling me her real name...it was actually pretty damn funny and oh, did I mention we ended up dating for over 4 years and are still great friends today:D

  4. Question for the guys

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    We’ve been dating for about a month ½ (not long at all) and I’m just wondering if he has a problem with the fact that I’m of a different faith than he is (I’m Jewish and he comes from a very Italian-Catholic family). The faith/nationality thing is never an issue for me, but I know it is for a lot of people. I thought he knew that I was Jewish, but I found out recently that he didn’t know, so he basically just found out.

    I know that the best way to approach these types of situations is to ask, but this is always an uncomfortable situation, especially in the early stages of a relationship. And, I don’t want him to think that I’m looking to marry him ASAP or anything like that, I just don’t want to waste my time…

    I don't understand you...

    So you're just wondering if this kid who is dating you might have a problem with you being of different faith/nationality? Has he ever done or said anything to make you feel that way? How long are you two seeing each other? And if it's a concern to you, why not bring it up in conversation with him?

  5. Question for the guys

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    Yeap, the sooner you tell them the better.....Honesty even though it can sometimes hurt is the best way to go!!!

    I'm not the one that has a problem with it...I'm just wondering if he does...and wondering if he would tell me if it was an issue...and i mean "getting serious," not banging

  6. Question for the guys

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    If you started dating someone who was of a different faith/background ( and this is an issue for you) and you had no intention of taking the relationship to the next level for that reason would you tell the person right away that this is an issue for you and that you have no intention of taking the relationship to the next level???

  7. am I being stalked ?

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    I also agree, no need to put his job in jeopardy just yet...

    I agree w/ crowina. First things first...You def. need to tell him to stop. Then u can report him if that doesn't work.

  10. New Year's Eve in Miami

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    Hi, I'm from NYC coming to SoBe for the New Year's Eve holiday.

    I visit Miami often and have been to most of the clubs. I noticed that there are New Year's parties at Mansion and Prive (both of which I have been to.)

    Was wondering if anyone has any input on which of these would be better or any alternative suggestions.

    Thanks

  15. Where to look for good girls

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    I don't think that there's a specific place... in my experience, sometimes you meet the best people in the worst places.

    Although clubs in general aren't the best place to meet good people, you never know.

  16. relationship advice...

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    this is a pretty unusual situation... I've been with my bf for almost one year and we've had a pretty good relationship overall. The only BIG problem is that he's a Palestinian Arab and I'm a Russian Jew (not your tyical couple to say the least.)

    About a week ago I decided that we shouldn't be together anymore b/c our relationship is ultimately doomed i.e. we could never get married even if things were going great otherwise. I broke up with him and have been pretty miserable about it.

    We spoke today and he asked me to get back together. When I asked him what would happen if we kept going out for yearsand everything was fine...what then? He said than at that point we would know that we gave it our all and go our separate ways. In my eyes, that seems kind of stupid, investing time and emotions into a relationship that has an expiration date on it. He says chances are, something will go wrong and we'll break up anyway, but what if it doesnt? what then?

    I really do love him and care about him and its not that I want a ring on my finger or anything , I just don't want to wake up in say 2 yrs. from now and resent myself and him for not ending it sooner.

    Any advice?:confused: :confused: :confused:

  17. age difference

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    what do you guys (and girls) think is a good age difference between two people who are dating/ in a relationship, etc.?

    I know that age is nothing but a number, but how young is too young and how old is too old?

  18. 3some or no?

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    Tommyharmani:

    I'm having a similar problem with my bf right now. He wants to have a 3some, but I'm not too sure about how this would affect our relationship. I dont want to feel pressured into doing it and if I decide to go through with it I want to be comfortable with it.

    He's had 2 3somes before, but they weren't with "girlfriends". I'm not against the idea per se, but I'm worried that things will get weird afterwards, even if we agree to ground rules before; I think in situations like that its hard to control your feelings sometimes. And besides, eventhough I've never had one, I think a 3some is better if you're not in a relationship with any of the people

    From a girl's perspective: it depends on whether or not your gf has had 3somes before, and what her take is.

    It also depends on what your take on them is and if you've had one in the past

  19. If your fiance????

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    first of all, if you're really in love with this person you have to ask them to be honest with you about why they broke off the engagement. If they're in love with you and respect you as a person they will have to be frank

    If its because of something that you did/didn't do and can work on, then try to work things out.

    On the other hand, if you dont get an explanation, then the best thing to do is move out and see what happens (I know, easier said than done)

    My philosophy has always been that if two people were meant to be together, they eventually will be, so there's no point in stressing over these things (again...easier said than done, but true)

    good luck

  22. Memorial Day 2003

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    Since Im from NYC, I've done the whole Vegas Memorial/Labor Day thing twice before and it is a lot of fun.

    However, I'm looking for a slightly different type of vacation. I'm coming to Miami to visit a friend , spend some time with family, and to work on my tan.

    I've been to Miami before and I know that you guys have some good party spots there, comparable to NYC. I'm looking to go to a few nice restaraunts/lounges, and also to hit up Space, Crobar, and Opium garden, along with some others.

    A few of my friends are going to Vegas for Memorial Day, but I'm just not feeling it this time around... perhaps some other time.:cool:

  25. going down

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    YOu guys are right...I wouldn't want to lose a cool person over this and maybe he'll get over it??? On the other hand, I wouldn't want to wait around forever, and the more you wait, the bigger the chance of becoming attached. ..:what:

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