xxsweetie

Actually, I'm not blonde at all (neither literally nor figuratively). its just that religion/ethnicity may not be an issue at the beginning of a relationship but becomes an issue as the relationship progresses. A lot of people dont care abolut the religion/ethnicity of the person they date, but may care about the religion/ethnicity of the person they end up with

that is a great story...hope things did not end between you guys b/c of the religion/ethnicity thing

my round booty...

We’ve been dating for about a month ½ (not long at all) and I’m just wondering if he has a problem with the fact that I’m of a different faith than he is (I’m Jewish and he comes from a very Italian-Catholic family). The faith/nationality thing is never an issue for me, but I know it is for a lot of people. I thought he knew that I was Jewish, but I found out recently that he didn’t know, so he basically just found out. I know that the best way to approach these types of situations is to ask, but this is always an uncomfortable situation, especially in the early stages of a relationship. And, I don’t want him to think that I’m looking to marry him ASAP or anything like that, I just don’t want to waste my time…

I'm not the one that has a problem with it...I'm just wondering if he does...and wondering if he would tell me if it was an issue...and i mean "getting serious," not banging

If you started dating someone who was of a different faith/background ( and this is an issue for you) and you had no intention of taking the relationship to the next level for that reason would you tell the person right away that this is an issue for you and that you have no intention of taking the relationship to the next level???

I also agree, no need to put his job in jeopardy just yet...

Anyone going to Miami for New Year's? I'm trying to decide on where to go: Mansion, Prive or Shellbourne Any suggestions? Thanks

I like just about everything, but prefer a place with both a hip-hop room and some good house beats

Hi, I'm from NYC coming to SoBe for the New Year's Eve holiday. I visit Miami often and have been to most of the clubs. I noticed that there are New Year's parties at Mansion and Prive (both of which I have been to.) Was wondering if anyone has any input on which of these would be better or any alternative suggestions. Thanks

its been my experience that sex improves dramatically as the relationship progresses When you develop feelings/a bond with the person and you get to know eachothers bodies/ likes/ dislikes the sex will most likely improve

im in brooklyn, and i have no power... thank god for my radio and laptop computer...

one of my friends and a guy started out being purely eachother's booty call...they're getting married next April. Ya never know:D

is that the only reason u broke up?

I don't think that there's a specific place... in my experience, sometimes you meet the best people in the worst places. Although clubs in general aren't the best place to meet good people, you never know.

this is a pretty unusual situation... I've been with my bf for almost one year and we've had a pretty good relationship overall. The only BIG problem is that he's a Palestinian Arab and I'm a Russian Jew (not your tyical couple to say the least.) About a week ago I decided that we shouldn't be together anymore b/c our relationship is ultimately doomed i.e. we could never get married even if things were going great otherwise. I broke up with him and have been pretty miserable about it. We spoke today and he asked me to get back together. When I asked him what would happen if we kept going out for yearsand everything was fine...what then? He said than at that point we would know that we gave it our all and go our separate ways. In my eyes, that seems kind of stupid, investing time and emotions into a relationship that has an expiration date on it. He says chances are, something will go wrong and we'll break up anyway, but what if it doesnt? what then? I really do love him and care about him and its not that I want a ring on my finger or anything , I just don't want to wake up in say 2 yrs. from now and resent myself and him for not ending it sooner. Any advice? :confused:

what do you guys (and girls) think is a good age difference between two people who are dating/ in a relationship, etc.? I know that age is nothing but a number, but how young is too young and how old is too old?

Tommyharmani: I'm having a similar problem with my bf right now. He wants to have a 3some, but I'm not too sure about how this would affect our relationship. I dont want to feel pressured into doing it and if I decide to go through with it I want to be comfortable with it. He's had 2 3somes before, but they weren't with "girlfriends". I'm not against the idea per se, but I'm worried that things will get weird afterwards, even if we agree to ground rules before; I think in situations like that its hard to control your feelings sometimes. And besides, eventhough I've never had one, I think a 3some is better if you're not in a relationship with any of the people From a girl's perspective: it depends on whether or not your gf has had 3somes before, and what her take is. It also depends on what your take on them is and if you've had one in the past

first of all, if you're really in love with this person you have to ask them to be honest with you about why they broke off the engagement. If they're in love with you and respect you as a person they will have to be frank If its because of something that you did/didn't do and can work on, then try to work things out. On the other hand, if you dont get an explanation, then the best thing to do is move out and see what happens (I know, easier said than done) My philosophy has always been that if two people were meant to be together, they eventually will be, so there's no point in stressing over these things (again...easier said than done, but true) good luck

Geminis are my best love match;) (I'm an Aquarius) and generally all the ones I've ever met have been really cool people. Unfortunately, I dont know too many:confused:

law school has been kicking my ass... I have one more on Friday and the last one on Monday night... then its off to SoBe:cool:

Since Im from NYC, I've done the whole Vegas Memorial/Labor Day thing twice before and it is a lot of fun. However, I'm looking for a slightly different type of vacation. I'm coming to Miami to visit a friend , spend some time with family, and to work on my tan. I've been to Miami before and I know that you guys have some good party spots there, comparable to NYC. I'm looking to go to a few nice restaraunts/lounges, and also to hit up Space, Crobar, and Opium garden, along with some others. A few of my friends are going to Vegas for Memorial Day, but I'm just not feeling it this time around... perhaps some other time.

thanks for the info. guys, let me know if any other interesting events come up...

Hey Miami peeps: Im coming down to Miami/Ft. Lauderdale for Memorial Day weekend. Any word yet on what's happening that weekend? I appreciate the info.

YOu guys are right...I wouldn't want to lose a cool person over this and maybe he'll get over it??? On the other hand, I wouldn't want to wait around forever, and the more you wait, the bigger the chance of becoming attached. ..