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I need to find a bartending job ASAP preferrably in Brooklyn or in the city. I have a few months experience and am certified with the New York Bartenders Association. If anyone can help, please pm me. Thanks:)

Some of my friends have said the same thing...that since it isnt a serious relationship, he may not feel that he needs to get tested. But...I decided to stand my ground on this one, because even if its not a serious relationship...sex is a serious matter in and of itself, and besides whats the big fucken deal ??? As far as my "friend" she has done this before. In fact she's done this with every guy ive ever been with/dated, just that different people respond to her bs differently. I've spoken to her in the past and it hasnt worked. So for now, im just to pissed off to speak to her...but we'll see with that:blown:

I took the test 2x,its hard as hell...so study hard and good luck!

NOt sure of what to do next(if anything at all) I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months...nothing serious, just chilling and having a good time. In the meantime, hes been doing his thing and ive been doing mine. When he first tried to get intimate w/me i told him that i couldnt sleep w/him w/out knowing what else (or who else) he was doing. One night, we did sleep together though (we used protection) Recently he went on vacation and when he came back i asked if he would get tested. He said ok, though he was intoxicated at the time... Last Sat. a bunch of us hung out (my friends and his) afterwards, we all went back to chill at someone's house and him and my friend started arguing and dissing on eachother like cats and dogs. Keep in mind htat my friend provocked most of it and was being a bitch for no apparent reason. At first, i tried to get them to "play nice" but he said not to worry about it. The dissing got worse and a lot of unnecessary things were said. AT that point i saw no point in my intervention. I called him up today (2days after this happened and havent heard from him) and said that i appologized for my friends behavior. He said it was ok, but that she was a bitch, etc, etc (i cant really disagree here) He also said about the testing business it made him feel dirty. He said he knows when he needs to be tested and that right now theres no need to. He said he was ok w/us not doing anything sexual, we could just hang out. that its my call... We ended things off w/ him saying "ill be in touch w/u" I have already talked to my friend about her behavior, but shes done it before and i doubt that she will change...Any suggestions about her/him?

No...Never:confused:

...and you boys know it

Anyone going to factory tonight? I'm trying to decide whether I should go or not...

NOt lately...the F/V from Brooklyn sucks. Its very slow

53rd and 5th

I havent heard anyting about this...can someone give me more 411?

i missed nyrs...so i guess ill be there this sat

Ok...I feel like I'm the only loser in the city today. The streets of Manhattan are virtually empty and I have to work

Hey...everyone who's telling you to take it easy is right. I know that this is easier said than done, but just think of "chilling out" as somethigng that you're gonna do for your own well being. I know what you're going through, because I was in a similar situation with my x boyfriend about 10 mos. ago. Actually I was more in your girlfriend's shoes so maybe I can help you with some insight into what she's thinking. I told my bf of 2 yrs. that I needed "time apart" like your gf I also had a lot on my plate at the time. After youre with someone for a long time , things usualy do fall into some typeof a routine, there's no way of escaping from that. The best advice I can give you is to be there for her without smothering. That may be diffcult to do with someone you love, but u need to try. Give her time, give her space to figure things out. Don't pressure her and most importantly dont pressure yourself. Also dont put all of your eggs in one basket. Take sometime to heal but also realize that you have a lot of other great thing going on in your life: family, friends, career, etc. Hang out with some old friends, maybe even go on a date with someone in a little while (thats always fun to do after you've been with the same person for a long time . If things were meant to be between you too, they will work themselves out. If not, then there is someone better out there for you because everything happens for a reason (thought it may not seem like it at the time.) So please...take it easy hun, get back to basics, and keep us posted. Take care:)

Ill prolly be there

Does anyone know a guest list for Roxy for tonite? If so, can u put Rachel N. + 3 on it? Thanx. Also, I got this e-mail yesterday about girls getting free admission at Ohm tomorrow until 12:30 or 1, but i erased the e-mail by accident. Does anyone know about that?

I'm not sure about now...but at the beginning of last year, I really liked World. The crowd was cool and good-looking for the most part, the drinks were good, and the music was kinda good too

I have to work too. I wanted to take the day off, but my asshole of a boss said "NO":mad: Shouldn't be that bad though, because I think the firm will be having a 1/2 day or something

I need to borrow about $5,000 to finish my last semester in college. Apparentlly I missed a few credit card payments and got rejected for the city assist loan from Citibank. Does anyone know any other student loan programs? Thanx

Finals went ok, just glad to be done how bout u? BTW: i got my first acceptance letter today

I agree...and also I think that even if you meet at a club, its important to show your date that you're able to have a good time outside of the club scene as well

I'm going to one51 and then gonna head over to factory around 4:30-5

Didn't see anyone fall off the stage, but I did see this weird looking guy walking around early Sunday morning totally cracked out...he kept trying to grab random people's faces, and then eventually he just fell on the floor, like to the right of the main stair case...really weird, it was probably the same guy:eek:

Actually, no. This is my reality

Oh yea... ya gotta love the good ol' three day rule I think its a stupid rule, but most guys i meet still manage to go by it. Now its beginning to be more like the 4-5 day rule. Example: I met this guy last Saturday, gave him my #....wonder if and when hes gonna call:confused: I think if you wanna call the guy you should, if he comes off cold or distant or whatever, then hes just trying to be a playa. I think its up to us girls to break that whole guy-calls-first rule Im sure it'll happen eventually

I'm done for this semester This means I have 1 more semester left!!! :D