Wow, thanks for all the interest in my topic and helpful posts! I have travelled in many Asian countries and lived in Flushing for a year but sometimes it's not always easy to know someone's background from their appearance. I think it is very important and respectful to discover someone's cultural background, as there are tremendous differences between Asian cultures. Knowing a little about these differences makes for a rich NYC experience. Don't cheat yourself. Ask, read, discover. About Asian Fetish, I think it's wrong to say that Asian women are culturally the same as 3rd generation Americans. They do tend to be less confrontational in my experience. Also more intelligent, generous, sensitive, and persevering. So if I like the characteristics of some Asian women, am I not entitled to seek those people? In reality, the Asian women I know are very different from white girls in these ways. And by the way, I estimate that there are 6 million jewish guys worldwide, and 1000 million asian girls. So if you're down on St. Marks and you see a couple like this, which one has the FETISH?