pay no mind to that ass..... I've been in the same situation before...just because he tells u he loves u, DO NOT feel obligated to say it back if it's not in your heart, that WILL only make it worse. My suggestion to you is to just be honest and tell him exactly what your feelings are for him. Don't feel badly and be afraid to hurt him, let him know how great of a time u have with him, and how "fabulous" things are, but as of now...ur just not ready to tell him "I love you". If he's a keeper, he will understand. I may just be rambling, but I hope it helps. Good luck girlie