Tell me something I've wondered about........................why is it some women are loose as hell during sex, and others are always tight even after having kids????? I always assumed it had to do with working out and keeping fit, but, my current "sig. other" does not work out, never has, is my age, has 2 kids, and is always tight as hell! My last "friend" worked out at the same gym as I do regularly, was some 4 years younger than me, no kids ever, and was just a sloppy, loose, mess! Like I said, I've noticed this for quite some time with various "friends" through the years, but, the last few really have things messed up for my conclusions on the matter............... Hope this isn't to "out there".......................just thought about this after last night and remembered this forum and thought someone might have some insight...................