destiny in the years of childhood since u dont have control over ur parents the neighborhood u live in and the school u go to..hence the kinds of people u meet...then choice once u move outta the house, go to college, etc ...but then again ur childhood determines a big part of who u are and become..so maybe destiny still has a hand in the future decisions u make albeit an unrecgonized one..maybe thats lookin into it too much but i like to think i live my life by choice