My ex-gf is doing almost exactly what fiery is talking about with a little twist. We went out for 3 yrs and then broke up, but were still hooking up and wanted to get back together. Then she said that she thinks she may have feelings for someone else and wants to give it a try. She gave me all that fate stuff, saying that "time will tell". She then said, "I still love you, but I don't know if we are meant to be best friends or more than that, I have to see how things go with someone else first, then we if it doesn't work out we will give things a chance again". To me this whole situation made me realize how there is no fate, because she fell in love with someone else even though she used to tell me there is never anyone I can love more than you ect.. There is not just one person in the world for each of us. I have been debating if I should even hang around. SHe still wants me to be friends with her but it now seems like I am the one who has to call her and stuff. She thinks she has me for granted and I hate that. I feel that if you have feelings for someone, but possibly in love with someone else, the person should take some time to themselves instead of hurting the one person who might be worth it in the long run. You have to decide what you like more. There are always gonna be people with similiar qualities and looks, or even better. It takes more than just that, it takes a connection and trust in your self that you will not act on temptation while being with another.