well, i am back from ny and i wanted to thank everyone for their help. i had a great time in ny and since it rained all weekend it didn't even matter what i wore because i was soaked anyway. i did end up going to brittanys and although the food wasn't that good, the music and the crowd were okay. i also went to a male strip show, saw a comedy show at carolines, saw a broadway show, and spent too much money shopping! i had so much and can't wait to go back but before then i need to learn to get around on the subways better!