I didn't know that there was any way to have bad sex.....I mean if it sux right off the bat....take fuckin' control and throw a couple donkey punches and alabama steamer in there and things should heat up pretty quick....it's all about animal sex.......no inhibitions check them at the door...i guess i've been lucky but there's no fuckin' way i'm gonna go through the motions if it's not cuttin' it...the point is to enjoy it to a point of orgasmic poportions...no??... DONKEY!!!!!.....if you scaring the bitch you're doing good....