come to think about it though, if i didnt have a high metabolism, i'd be huge and i wouldnt care cause i am lazy as shit i would love for someone to kick me in the ass and drag me to the gym, regardless if i need to or not............... i say maybe suggest working out as a "togetherness" activity. you never know she might be waiting for some help but only if you are looking out for HER best interests, and not YOURS.