I hear ya about finding that chill spot where its more about the music than about being seen. I am from Chicago and moved here about 2 years ago. I spin funky Chicago style house, this Satuday Dec. 14th we are spinning at a very chill spot, Kaya in Kendall. Really cool spot, only room for about 200-300 people, but the whole club has tons of space for dancing, couches, lounging areas. We have done this spot about 3 times already and are definitely looking for some support. Its free before 11pm and $5 after.....I assure you the music will take you back to exactly what you initially described. If you can make it we would appreciate the support....here is a link to the flyer that has a little sound byte, peace!! www.geocities.com/lyriklyfunky