girlfriend, i am going to tell you the same thing i told another friend of mine that was wrapped up in his bs. i can't even hold it against anyone that didn't know me well, because he is a good con artist. if he was good enough to con me, he is good enough to con ANYONE. you and i could probably exchange stories for DAYS. he's lucky i didn't go to the cops on his ass and press charges for terroristic threats. (i was told to do that by a passaic detective after he threatened my job for no reason) if you need anything or just want to talk, let me know. i know he can leave you feeling quite perplexed and mystified.