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  1. You are super hot... I have a "thing" for girls in glasses...

    Post some more! Show some more!

    Ok I haven't really truly been on here in ages. But here are some pics :bounce:

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    my cam has the tendency to make me very very white...lol

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    kiss!!

  2. Dude, you just said in your first post that part of the agreement was to see other people. Hello?! McFly!

    it was a mutual agreement. the problem is that even though she SAID we could, you know how girls can be. She could just be testing me. or she could just be saying that we can, but would still freak out anyway if/when she finds out.

  3. So my girlfriend and I have been having all sorts of stress in our lives, and we decided to take a little bit of "time off" to have some time apart and figure things out. I'm sure we are going to get back together very soon.

    However, when we took time off, part of the agreement was that we are allowed to see other people. What do you think? Should I have one more thrill, or should I be good? I know I want to be with this girl, she's definitely the one, but while we're taking time off, should I try to hook up one last time? It IS my last chance, although I might feel really guilty

    Advice, please!!!!!!!!

  4. Yes, but "be yourself" is so vague, and I don't think that he ever asked whether he should "act like someone else" or "be himself"...

    I just get frustrated when people have told me to "be myself" because really, be yourself is kind of meaningless advice. Ok, so I shouldn't do my Arnold Schwartzenegger impression the whole time. No shit. I think he's asking for more specific advice, like, "is the second date too soon for romance" or "what kind of restaurants are good for second dates". Obviously he has to roll with the feel of the night and turn up the romance if the situation calls for it, but he's just looking for general advice, i.e., the Industry Standard on dating.

    It took me a lot of figuring out on my own through trial and a lot of error before piecing this stuff together, and I still am no expert... But "be yourself" is not really very specific advice.

    Also, I know that when I was starting out "being myself" meant telling girls everything about "myself" because I'm the type that tends to spill everything about myself right off the bat... I had to learn the hard way that you have to pace yourself and not appear so interested right from the start, otherwise you scare them away. I'm still being myself, I just reveal myself at a slower pace than I normally would. Is that still "being yourself?"

    Stick with being yourself. That's what is working. I would put myself in an area where you have a bunch of options. Don't plan the night except for dinner. Take every minute as it comes. Remember to be in control.
  5. I agree generally with the "be yourself" philosophy, meaning that you have to trust your instincts and go with the flow. You must adapt to her vibe.

    However, there's a limit on that -- I mean, you're not going to fully "be yourself", meaning that you're not going to just completely let your guard down and start talking about the new rash that you have and your ex girlfriends and your dead dog. You have to select carefully what aspects of "yourself" you're going to present to her, and when you present them. In other words, of course he shouldn't fake it, but "be yourself" is pretty vague advice. There's definitely some artfulness to the whole thing.

    My favorite place for 1st dates are restaurants that are a little off the beaten path (not TGI Friday's, etc) -- basically places that have some sort of unique atmosphere/food. Middle-range in terms of price. And most importantly, you should be in a place that has a good sized crowd, because it's too early to have a secluded romantic dinner. That comes later. If you want to get intimiate or whatever that can come after the dinner. Be in a crowd at first to take the edge off.

    ok im gunna be like the 3rd person to say it but i will reenforce it. BE YOURSELF!!!!!!

    trust me.......TRUSTTTTTTTT MEEEEEEEEE

    it works wonders.

    if she doesnt like you for YOU, then its not ment to be.

  6. You people are completely insane with your back fetishes. Yeah, the back has to be nice, but so does everything else. But who the hell would value a back over legs (esp. thighs), or tummy, not to mention tits, ass, face, and hell, just about anything else. If a girl has a wider back than you then you should stop dating linebackers. Or hit the gym!!

  7. Sexy back?!???

    WTF?

    Which of one of these 3 do you prefer on the opposite sex?

    Guys do you prefer on a woman:

    Nice Long Legs

    Flat Tummy

    Sexy Back

    ______________

    Ladies do you prefer on a man:

    Well defined shoulders

    Strong arms

    Washboard abs

  8. Where are you going to be staying?

    I'm probably staying in San Jose, not sure yet, though. I want to know where the hottest club scene is, or the party scene, whatever. I will basically go wherever it's good.

    Is it a good party scene, though? Is it wild? Or is it more just nature-y?

  9. It's hot when you make out in full view. You're so wrapped up in the girl that you don't even care about anything else. That's HOT!

    Plus, for the men out there -- it means that we have better chances of hooking up at a club, if girls are willing to make out in public...

  10. Nice, Coach.

    Yeah, nice way to introduce yourself. Just come on and start insulting people.

    That being said, I think one of the primary reasons that some guys tend to notice the surgically altered girls more is that, aside from their surgical changes, those girls *also* make a strong effort to look good in other ways.

  11. well, how would you feel if SHE wanted to be with you, but 'go play the field' and keep you around during the process? you gotta look at it through the other perspective.

    Yeah, but I think that part of the agreement is that they BOTH get to play the field, not just one... I think he is willing to take that hit (of his girl making out with other guys) in exchange for a little action on his part...

    The reason I'm saying this is because I know a couple that were very serious but every thursday night they reserved for casual dating... no sex allowed... and now they are married and they are great together.

    I'm not saying it's a usual or likely scenario, but these people seem to have made it work, so......

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