The girl he dated told him not to get sooo close cause she didn't know how they would end up. He went out of his way to "play daddy." He also said he would never abondon the kid if things didn't work out for whatever reason. He would tell her daughter and her Mother that he and her were gonna get married etc... she never asked for it. He went out of his way. Now through a good source it trurms out he had another girlfriend the whole time they were going out. I am saying only a scumbag calls a girl his girlfriend, gets very close to her daughter, and has another girlfriend on the side. Or has her on the side. She looks back now and sees the little signs. Hindsight is 20/20. He never said goodbye or gave a reason. He just disappeared. That is a low life. At least let the kid down slowly. Tell the kid you are moving across country or something.