freakster

actually you are both wrong. Not going to be around for a bit. Leaving out of here tonight to my grandfather's house im michigan.

My face is just fine *rolls eyes*

LMAO! That's pretty clever and funny as hell

you and your predictions...

Sushi? Gross.

Well I'm going to give all this some thought. But for now I don't really want to talk about it anymore.

You guys have a point but it's not that easy. We were set to get married in a month... And overall he's a good guy. It's my fault this happened because I told him to gt a better job or I was going to leave. He did what he thought he had to do to keep me with him.

what do you mean? Leave him or drop the subject?

I doubt that but really I am afraid to dig any deeper into this. He's been yelling at me all day about it.

I was born in Oklahoma. Lived in Texas 2 years. Plus it's kind of hard to know what the hell is going on when your boyfriend is lyeing out his ass to you. No. just the past year.

Well i've gotten everything figured out so now you guys will understand where all the confusion has come from... Ok guys I've gotten myself into a bit of trouble over this. I tried to be sneaky but he's smarter than that so now he's really ticked that I've been pokeing around. Turns out that he is doing an internship with a vet. He led me to beleive he was actually one. Reson for the lying.... His cousin has been loaning him money to keep me off his ass. I have never met his cousin but apparently the guy is loaded. He knew I wouldn't allow it and make him return the money so he had to keep it secret. So yeah... right now I am feeling rather guilty for pushing him into this situation. he did do the schooling to become a vet but he never did the internship. (lost interest or took a break or something) and I am embarrassed for makeing a fool of myself to him and his family as well as on here.

Just because I am not 100% sure about what he does it does not mean I am lying. We don't talk about his work. I have enough to worry about without talking about all the animals that go in and out. (that's if that's what he does) My sister couldn't tell me what her husband did and he's had his job for 2 years. they never really talk about it. Turned out he worked in a factory. (she thought thats what it was though)

I only know what he's told me really and I have never had any reason to not beleive him. BTW he's not my husband yet. EDIT: I just asked to see one of his paycheck stubs just to see how much he makes exactly on one paycheck and he can't show me one. Arn't you supposed to save them?

maybe... he doesn't talk about it much and it wouldn't be the first time I have misunderstood something. I went to the colleges website last night that he supposedly did his schooling with and I can't find anything about vet careers on itso now I am a littl suspiciouse that he's made it up or soemthing... (no i have never seen any completion certificate)

thanks. EDIT: never mind.. I have the answere now.

he didn't get ther the very next day. He already had the schooling. Just didn't want to work a harder job. And you can get the degree in 2 years online See you guys are only getting bits and peices of things here and jumping to conclusions. Not the whole story. but you can go ahead and assume what you want. I have been sick this past week so i don't have the energy to go on about this really nor do I care to continue to give you my life story.

He a vet. and I think some of you are misunderstanding what I ment when I said we get by and still have money to do other things. If I asked him to go out and buy me a hummer right now we would not have the money. What I mean by what I said is that we can pay our bills and the rent on our current appartment (2 bedroom so it's not like rent is alot more than the other) and get groceries and still have the money to go to the movies and have our internet/WoW game going. After that there really is not much to spare. Now if little one was not in the picture then it would be different. We would have a-lot more money.

He was workign at a video store because it was "Easy" when he could have had a better job that paid alot more. I told him to either take and go for the better job or I was leaveing.

5 *rolls eyes* I didn't say we were rich. Just that we do well. As in we can take care of ourselves and still have money to do other things. Nomembername... My fiance comes from a family that did without alot of things. Me and him started dateing when we were freshmen in highschool. At the time his family could barely afford to pay their bills. If I was in it for the money then I would have never stayed with him. Plus rich people piss me off. EdIzt: Forgot to add that less than a year ago we were living in a one bedroom apartment and barely makeing rent. I couldn't work because i was pregnant and sick all the time and he was being too stubborn to get a job that pushed him to do better Also... getting me pregnant would not mean that he would HAVE to marry me.

Wow... I don't work yet and I only do classwork twice a week. I don't think I could handle that much on my plate. Even if I was through with classes I would not be working though. My daughter has a heart condition (It's not too seriouse of one. Easily corrected) so untill she has surgery and is recovered I spend as much of my time at home with her as possible. I am avoiding daycare and stranger babysitters due to the fact that if she gets sick she will be put back in the hospital. But... by the time I am finished with classes and have my career her surgery will have passed and I will feel more at ease with her going into a daycare. For now I just go out every few weeks while her grandmother watches her. It all works great for me and I wouldn't change a thing. Thankfully her father has a good job so we get by very well.

Yeah, at least I wasn't a pregnant teenager. I have a friend that is just turning 20 and she just had her second. BTW... I only have one more year of classes. I'm doing my schooling online. I love it how it's assumed that just because I have a kid that I have put my schooling on hold. It's possible to do both. Not easy but it can be done.

you say it like I am 13 or sumthing. I'm 21 and there is nothing wrong with haveing a kid at 21. I'm a big girl, I can take care of myself.

If he does then he better make it a good one because my brother will kill him. He beat the snot out of my sister's ex just for slapping her.

same here. When I first moved in with my fiance he was a bit of a control freak Wouldn't let me go anywhere or do anything or talk to anyone. It was pretty lonely.

Gross... anything that is more than 2 days old I toss.