snoozi8 Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 yeah so all of a sudden I met mad amounts of people this weekend, of course I don't want another relationship yet in fact I'm feeling really weird about meeting new men I don't know why do men sense that you're vulnerable? they hear that you've just come from a breakup and think you'll rebound right into their bed? for some reason I don't want that not with anyone new anyway and would a man offer his number if he just wanted to /or was cool with being friends? argggh and what happens when I want to have sex but no relationship sometimes I feel bad when the two don't go together Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 I think they do...cause its like they can smell that you are single and what not...but yet I also feel that men sense when you do have a b/f cause they flock even more....either way they come after you..but it seems more when you do become single or are recently taken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saigray Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 Yes they do, and they are dirty dogs and will use that sense to take advantage of you. Watch your back, girly. They are on the prowl.(and no guy ever gives his number to be friends unless he's gay or a reaaaallly cool guy with a long term, ab. fab girlfriend who's not interested in anything but being friends.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snoozi8 Posted May 28 Author Report Share Posted May 28 ugh every time I had a conversation a number got involved I talk to everyone it doesn't mean I want to hookup! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 i know i'm a fuckin freak cuz i usu. go the other way...a rebounding girl is something i stay away from...it's just trouble...obviously, men diggin to get dug will pursue but for those of us that use both heads to think know that anyone just coming out of a relationship is to be dealt with care if at all... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 Originally posted by saigray (and no guy ever gives his number to be friends unless he's gay or a reaaaallly cool guy with a long term, ab. fab girlfriend who's not interested in anything but being friends.) ...nope...no bitterness there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saigray Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 Originally posted by phatman ...nope...no bitterness there... hehe, no bitterness, just reality. How often do girls I meet in clubs offer to give me their numbers so we can be friends and hang out n' stuff...almost never, why? Because we don't hand out numbers in clubs to find friends. the level on which u get to know someone in that environment is usually so superficial that the phone number offer is for physical attributes rather than personality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 Originally posted by saigray hehe, no bitterness, just reality. How often do girls I meet in clubs offer to give me their numbers so we can be friends and hang out n' stuff...almost never, why? Because we don't hand out numbers in clubs to find friends. the level on which u get to know someone in that environment is usually so superficial that the phone number offer is for physical attributes rather than personality. ...ummm....i'll agree to disagree on this one...i certainly cant be the only exception to the rule as i have been involved in many scenarios that contradict what you have written above...but then again, i'm older and havent been to that many clubs in a while...who knows...either way, there are some of us out there that know how to extend a friendly hand that are not gay or have the long term abs. fab. girlfriend...our only problem is our sex board addiction and who can really find fault in that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 Originally posted by saigray hehe, no bitterness, just reality. How often do girls I meet in clubs offer to give me their numbers so we can be friends and hang out n' stuff...almost never, why? Because we don't hand out numbers in clubs to find friends. the level on which u get to know someone in that environment is usually so superficial that the phone number offer is for physical attributes rather than personality. there are some real ppl out there sai... they're just very few and far between... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 i definitely hang out with people to find/make friends. but it is true that meatmarkets work best when you have a large amount of sweaty, drunk, barely clad people -- some recently broken up, no doubt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 i´m now keeping to girls that are in relationships or that just clearly want the same as me. no strings attached fun and with the girls that are in relationships it is even better, cause we´re both in for the same, no "overwhelming feelings" on her side afterwards. hell i´m probably even SAVING some relationships by doing this. ain´t i a noble man? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted May 30 Report Share Posted May 30 Just saw this post...and definitely definitely yes guys do have that radar...and for some reason, whenever I break up with someone I immediately meet someone else that wants to spend every waking moment with me...let me breathe pleeeease Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brickhouse Posted May 30 Report Share Posted May 30 Back to the original question asked by this post.........I'll just shut up after tonight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted May 31 Report Share Posted May 31 Women should just understand that need to get "it" outta the way at least just once. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted May 31 Report Share Posted May 31 I don't have Sonar so i dont know what you're talking about.I do have a little voice in my head that sees recently dumped girls and screams "RUN!!!!!!"Seriously a lot of men have that predatory instinct, kind of like how sharks can instantly smell blood in the water for miles.Most guys giving you a number are just trying to get ass. Saigray is right. Unfortunately, but she hit the nail on the head.Any guy who's truly interested in YOU will ask you for YOURS.Ah well. i'll save ya a big hug at Shagfest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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