georgym Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 It can be such a deceiver.Physical beauty alone can't define somebody as a person.I've gotten screwed by this, and it hurts, but i guess it's a lesson we all should abide by.:paint: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 ...we've all been smurfed by that at some point...but in all honesty, the entire package is out there...looks, smarts, sense of humor, etc...just look in the mirror papa...if you got it, how hard is it to believe that there are similar types out there...of the smurfette type ofcourse...chin up my friend... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danamdkny Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 thats what I am always hoping for- the whole package-- They Must exist-- ! I am a living example Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted November 26 Author Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by phatman ...we've all been smurfed by that at some point...but in all honesty, the entire package is out there...looks, smarts, sense of humor, etc...just look in the mirror papa...if you got it, how hard is it to believe that there are similar types out there...of the smurfette type ofcourse...chin up my friend... I hear ya, phatman It's just tough having high hopes , and then getting let down for things other than looks, cuz those are JUST as important.I believe i got it , it just seems like such a huge world out there, that the best people get lost in the crowd Maybe i should move to Omaha, Nebraska Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 i totally agree with phatman. I mean you do have to be attracted to that person(so looks matter at first) but if good looks is all you have in common, then it wont last. you need to be attracted to the person, but more imprtantly you have to be attracted to thier personality to make it work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by incredulous i totally agree with phatman. I mean you do have to be attracted to that person(so looks matter at first) but if good looks is all you have in common, then it wont last. you need to be attracted to the person, but more imprtantly you have to be attracted to thier personality to make it work True.......... I was lucky to find someone beautiful both inside and out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Hopefully someday I'll find the whole package...but as of now.....no luck yet!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by sweetie029 Hopefully someday I'll find the whole package...but as of now.....no luck yet!! Yes you will..... They always come when you are least expecting it.......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danamdkny Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 I know this sounds trite or cliche~ if a person is beautiful on the inside it exudes throughout and they are beautiful because of it - by expression - or gesture-and people may appear fair or "beautiful" that are cold or cruel on the inside are really ugly -- it shows on you face-for me at least-- I am really disinterested in appearance alone- it can become vapid and a bore- I delve and desire soemthing more from people-- in ANY type of relationship . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by danamdkny I know this sounds trite or cliche~ if a person is beautiful on the inside it exudes throughout and they are beautiful because of it - by expression - or gesture-and people may appear fair or "beautiful" that are cold or cruel on the inside are really ugly -- it shows on you face-for me at least-- I am really disinterested in appearance alone- it can become vapid and a bore- I delve and desire soemthing more from people-- in ANY type of relationship . Very well said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 True.......... I was lucky to find someone beautiful both inside and out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Good use of imagery! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by mystify82281 Yes you will..... They always come when you are least expecting it.......... I hope you are right IDK.....I've always looked past whats on the outside & found that even if the person isn't my type physically...other qualities stand out & the more I get to know the person the more attractive they become...but I'm sick of that! LoL I know I'm not a superficial person when it comes to relationships...but for once I want to be selfish. . . . .I want a stud with brains, personality & a good heart to go along with it!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted November 26 Author Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by sweetie029 . . . .I want a stud with brains, personality & a good heart to go along with it!!! I'm right here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by sweetie029 I hope you are right IDK.....I've always looked past whats on the outside & found that even if the person isn't my type physically...other qualities stand out & the more I get to know the person the more attractive they become...but I'm sick of that! LoL I know I'm not a superficial person when it comes to relationships...but for once I want to be selfish. . . . .I want a stud with brains, personality & a good heart to go along with it!!! You are not selfish or shallow in the slightest bit..... No one should have to settle!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danamdkny Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by gmccookny I'm right here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by sweetie029 I want a stud with brains, personality & a good heart to go along with it!!! lol, i agree--if prince charming came knocking on my door, i wouldn't turn him away but in reality, right now...i just want someone that makes me happy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted November 26 Report Share Posted November 26 Originally posted by suthrnbelle but in reality, right now...i just want someone that makes me happy I hear ya on that one....(cause even that's hard to come across lately! lol ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by danamdkny I know this sounds trite or cliche~ if a person is beautiful on the inside it exudes throughout and they are beautiful because of it - by expression - or gesture-and people may appear fair or "beautiful" that are cold or cruel on the inside are really ugly -- it shows on you face-for me at least-- I am really disinterested in appearance alone- it can become vapid and a bore- I delve and desire soemthing more from people-- in ANY type of relationship . oh man that is so effin true!!~ this year we had a transfer move unto our floor and when i saw him i was just like, oh my god , this kid is soooooooooooooo hot! . . . then i got to know him. . . soooo freakin boring and stupid and cocky. . . HUGE TURNOFF! oh yeah... and i just wanna say that i totally agree with whoever says things come to you when you least expect it. SOOOOOOO TRUE! i met my exboyfriend soo randomly at this point where i wasn't even wanting a boyfriend. . . just have faith and like phattie said, keep yer chin up... they'll come along when the time is right!p.s. listen to john mayer - love song to no one... great song and totally fits this thread... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by djmoonshine p.s. listen to john mayer - love song to no one... great song and totally fits this thread... that song is my THEME song--has been for several months...it is soooo true, and i love it and HIM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by suthrnbelle that song is my THEME song--has been for several months...it is soooo true, and i love it and HIM what a geek Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by gabo what a geek jealous much? i mean cause yer a cool guy and all... so cool you made a thread about just how cool you are. cause that's really cool. herb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danamdkny Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by djmoonshine oh man that is so effin true!!~ this year we had a transfer move unto our floor and when i saw him i was just like, oh my god , this kid is soooooooooooooo hot! . . . then i got to know him. . . soooo freakin boring and stupid and cocky. . . HUGE TURNOFF! oh yeah... and i just wanna say that i totally agree with whoever says things come to you when you least expect it. SOOOOOOO TRUE! i met my exboyfriend soo randomly at this point where i wasn't even wanting a boyfriend. . . just have faith and like phattie said, keep yer chin up... they'll come along when the time is right!p.s. listen to john mayer - love song to no one... great song and totally fits this thread... thanks:)and I agree that things happen unexpectedly~ you cant always MAKE things happen always~ Karma and fate must take their turn every once and awhile ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by suthrnbelle that song is my THEME song--has been for several months...it is soooo true, and i love it and HIM Your Body is a Wonderland is a GOOD song...... and so is his last song...... John Mayer ------> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronalds Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 reminds me of such a ture quote from "Sex, Lies & Videotape""Men learn to love the person they're attracted to, and women become more attracted to the person they love" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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