sweetie029 Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 This probably pertains more to the girls than guys but....I have noticed that every time i go through a break-up or a rough time w/ a partner I always find myself changing something about my image to make a change...I don't do it b/c of self esteem or anything like that but more or less to reinvent myself & make a fresh start...Does anyone else find themselves doing this too ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 Originally posted by sweetie029 This probably pertains more to the girls than guys but....I have noticed that every time i go through a break-up or a rough time w/ a partner I always find myself changing something about my image to make a change...I don't do it b/c of self esteem or anything like that but more or less to reinvent myself & make a fresh start...Does anyone else find themselves doing this too ?? Nothing wrong with change. Change is good, real good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meli2444 Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 I HAVE DONE IT. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH WANTING TO CHANGE YOUR IMAGE. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 I've done that just to keep things interesting and reinvent myself.As long as the change is to get better, there should be no problemo. For instance, don't think about changing your personality or character. Just some 'lil tidbits, like hair, clothes style or things of that nature Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted December 13 Author Report Share Posted December 13 Originally posted by gmccookny I've done that just to keep things interesting and reinvent myself.As long as the change is to get better, there should be no problemo. For instance, don't think about changing your personality or character. Just some 'lil tidbits, like hair, clothes style or things of that nature Yes thats what I mean See my friends think I'm a weirdo because every time I go through a rough situation I always do something to myself like cut or dye my hair drastically...buy new makeup things like that ect. IMO thats the best therapy during tough times....Changing a little something about yourslef comes along with making a new start (but no one who I know agrees with me on this) oh well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 Originally posted by sweetie029 ....Changing a little something about yourslef comes along with making a new start (but no one who I know agrees with me on this) oh well Well, maybe they "unconsciously" agree with you, or they have different methods of going through a change.Me, for instance, i take a trip somewhere. Anywhere. Hopefully i go to Belgium where i have friends and family. Going away really gives me clairvoyance and helps to put in perspective things im getting over.But even taking a different route home can be fulfilling Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 i do the same thing. i'll buy a new outfit (thats my favorite:) ) find a new hairstyle...i usually feel better after that:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 Don't all women cut their hair after breaking up with their boyfirend? LOLIDK about you guys, but I usually do something I know my ex would've hated... We hadn't actually broken up yet, but things were rapidly falling apart, and I chopped like a foot off of my hair. I'd been thinking about it for a while, and then one day we had one of our typically stupid fights, and I just decided to go for it.We all have our rituals for getting rid of that aftertaste a bad relationship leaves behind... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dknybabe2929 Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 everytime you go thru a breakup you want to chsnge something...Its makes girls feel better I think;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 not really from a breakup, but i am always changing the way i think, look, and act...it's a constant process that will never end until the day you die. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 Originally posted by sassa not really from a breakup, but i am always changing the way i think, look, and act...it's a constant process that will never end until the day you die. I like how you think Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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