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This probably pertains more to the girls than guys but....I have noticed that every time i go through a break-up or a rough time w/ a partner I always find myself changing something about my image to make a change...I don't do it b/c of self esteem or anything like that but more or less to reinvent myself & make a fresh start...Does anyone else find themselves doing this too ??

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Originally posted by sweetie029

This probably pertains more to the girls than guys but....I have noticed that every time i go through a break-up or a rough time w/ a partner I always find myself changing something about my image to make a change...I don't do it b/c of self esteem or anything like that but more or less to reinvent myself & make a fresh start...Does anyone else find themselves doing this too ??

Nothing wrong with change. Change is good, real good!

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I've done that just to keep things interesting and reinvent myself.

As long as the change is to get better, there should be no problemo. For instance, don't think about changing your personality or character. Just some 'lil tidbits, like hair, clothes style or things of that nature ;)

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Originally posted by gmccookny

I've done that just to keep things interesting and reinvent myself.

As long as the change is to get better, there should be no problemo. For instance, don't think about changing your personality or character. Just some 'lil tidbits, like hair, clothes style or things of that nature ;)

Yes thats what I mean :) See my friends think I'm a weirdo because every time I go through a rough situation I always do something to myself like cut or dye my hair drastically...buy new makeup things like that ect. IMO thats the best therapy during tough times....Changing a little something about yourslef comes along with making a new start (but no one who I know agrees with me on this) :confused: oh well

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Originally posted by sweetie029

....Changing a little something about yourslef comes along with making a new start (but no one who I know agrees with me on this) :confused: oh well

Well, maybe they "unconsciously" agree with you, or they have different methods of going through a change.

Me, for instance, i take a trip somewhere. Anywhere. Hopefully i go to Belgium where i have friends and family. Going away really gives me clairvoyance and helps to put in perspective things im getting over.

But even taking a different route home can be fulfilling :)

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Don't all women cut their hair after breaking up with their boyfirend? LOL

IDK about you guys, but I usually do something I know my ex would've hated... We hadn't actually broken up yet, but things were rapidly falling apart, and I chopped like a foot off of my hair. I'd been thinking about it for a while, and then one day we had one of our typically stupid fights, and I just decided to go for it.

We all have our rituals for getting rid of that aftertaste a bad relationship leaves behind...

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