sassa Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 newly single..and breathing a sigh of relief about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted January 14 Author Report Share Posted January 14 Originally posted by sassa newly single..and breathing a sigh of relief about it. Hey I saw what you posted on the sex board about feeling guilty for dumping someone. I was wondering... do you feel guilty.I feel terrible now. So here's the story. Last week my boyfriend breaks up with me. I was upset and pissed off about it. He said it was because he thought I wasn't ready for a relationship. So I was mad and said isn't that decision for me to make, and not you. And he started to miss me and we ended up spending the weekend together to try to work on things, but we just ended up fighting a whole bunch because of all the tension between us. So then when I went home I thought about it and decided that he was right, and that I'm not really ready for a serious relationship and that I wanted to be single for a while. Or at least just alone for a while to think about things. So today he's being all nice and sweet to me and says that he wants to be with me and that we can work thru things... etc. So I end up having to dump him. It was a total flip flop. Now he's all upset about it. But he's even more upset than I ever was. WTF. Now I feel so guilty. He's making me feel so bad... because I do care about him, and I really don't want to hurt him, but I think it wouldn’t be right to get back together.I think I'm crazy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 no, now i don't...i did before, because the guy was super sensitive, but that was exactly why i dumped him...someone who tells you they love you after only a month...i cannot trust. maybe i'm paranoid, but i HAVE to know someone for at least 6 months to be able to even come close to saying that or trusting them enough with things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by copahc Hey I saw what you posted on the sex board about feeling guilty for dumping someone. I was wondering... do you feel guilty.I feel terrible now. So here's the story. Last week my boyfriend breaks up with me. I was upset and pissed off about it. He said it was because he thought I wasn't ready for a relationship. So I was mad and said isn't that decision for me to make, and not you. And he started to miss me and we ended up spending the weekend together to try to work on things, but we just ended up fighting a whole bunch because of all the tension between us. So then when I went home I thought about it and decided that he was right, and that I'm not really ready for a serious relationship and that I wanted to be single for a while. Or at least just alone for a while to think about things. So today he's being all nice and sweet to me and says that he wants to be with me and that we can work thru things... etc. So I end up having to dump him. It was a total flip flop. Now he's all upset about it. But he's even more upset than I ever was. WTF. Now I feel so guilty. He's making me feel so bad... because I do care about him, and I really don't want to hurt him, but I think it wouldn’t be right to get back together.I think I'm crazy This is just my 2 cents, b/c ive been thru a similar situation B4It's one thing to realize that you're not ready for a relationship, admit to the other that you can't commit right now, and ask for some time off. That still usually allows some time on the phone and the occassional "go out for some coffee" thing.But it's another thing to get dumped. To me, that;s basically saying you 2 are incompatable, and that it's completely over.If i were you, copa, i would still take a couple of days to think about it, and then call him up and just explain to him how you're feeling. I think u owe him at least that much, don't ya think?communication is key Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by gmccookny communication is key i agree with everything GM said, esp this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 add me too the newly single list:blown: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by reenichole add me too the newly single list:blown: you ok? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by incredulous you ok? awwh thanks for asking but sadly no:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 how lond were you together?what happened if you dont mind me asking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 we were together for a year, its a long story but if you want to really know ill bore you with the details one day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by reenichole awwh thanks for asking but sadly no:( Damn, sorry to hear that Ree.Care to share??Hehhe, and don't forget about Al Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by gmccookny Damn, sorry to hear that Ree.Care to share??Hehhe, and don't forget about Al how is al:tongue: its been a journey with all the ups and downs but if i typed what happened1)my hands would hurt(its very long story)2)i would depress everyone today:unhappy: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by reenichole 2)i would depress everyone today:unhappy: whenever you are ready, we are here for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by reenichole add me too the newly single list:blown: Shit seems like the world is breakin up... Sorry to hear... You can have my shoulder... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 yeah, alot of people seem to be breaking up. not just on cp world Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by incredulous yeah, alot of people seem to be breaking up. not just on cp world yes ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by incredulous whenever you are ready, we are here for you thank you;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by elementx Shit seems like the world is breakin up... Sorry to hear... You can have my shoulder... than you too:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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