wallflour Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Here's a silly question... perhaps more for the guys, unless you're a girl who makes more than your manWhen you go clubbing with your significant other, do you ever pay for cover for both yourself and (let's just say, to make this simple) her? If so, how often? Never, rarely, occassionally, usually, always?IMO, in NYC, you probably need to be making pretty good money in order to do that regularly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 i always pay...but a nice gesture would be for the gurlie to offer to buy u a drink or something....though thats not expected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 If I can, I pay. He already takes care of dinners/drinks/etc., he shouldn't have to pay for everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotcheme Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 we go out way too much for him to pay. but if i run out of cash for some reason then i let him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roha3000 Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Depends on how often you go out. But early on in the relationship I always pay. Eventually I become way too broke to pay every time. Guys are always chivalrous and make the offer to pay, but not enough women do the same. Its a little annoying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocksteadyct Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 hehe no comment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 my gf paid for my broke ass for a while (musik bless her)...then i started paying for myselfnow i pay for her a bunch of the time...but she still suprises me.even when i was broke though i took her out on special occasions and stuff.i think it somewhat depends on whether you are:a) taking her out to join your world going to clubs is something you both do / did all the timeIf b then always paying for her is like always paying the grocery bill, the gym membership or her monthly metro-card.If a, then you should def pay more cause you really are inviting her to do something with you instead of both going to something you already did seperately...just my opinion of course...and i should add that I have a RARE and EXCEPTIONAL gf who cuts me a lot of slack Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 I ALWAYS PAY FOR EVERYTHING! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reddog4063 Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 my gf is not really into the scene, i've been trying to invite her out for a night of mayhem and i would pay for that. If it because a regular thing she would pay admission and i'd prolly buy her the drinks. Shes not a freeloader though, if she sees me paying alot then she'll treat me the next time out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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