fineones Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 you know how ...at times you can feel like you 'friend' isnt giving as much to the friendship as you are..like with phone calls...like how u can get pissed if u feel like your always calling them..istead of them callin you once and a while?You ever get like that with instant messaging ?and friend of mine got pissed at me cuz shes always iming me ...instead of me iming her ??? isnt that alil too much? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 that's a little extreme...there are some people that I don't even speak to online but I love them just as much as I do those that I im the minute I sign on...tell her not to take things so personally..unless, of course, you don't im her for a reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by fineones you know how ...at times you can feel like you 'friend' isnt giving as much to the friendship as you are..like with phone calls...like how u can get pissed if u feel like your always calling them..istead of them callin you once and a while?You ever get like that with instant messaging ?and friend of mine got pissed at me cuz shes always iming me ...instead of me iming her ??? isnt that alil too much? My im comes on automatically, so half the time I forget I am on.... I do know a few people who get a lil bent outta shape, but everyone reacts differently. Personally, whatever, sometimes I am working on something sometimes I am just playing online.... Ya know... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by fineones you know how ...at times you can feel like you 'friend' isnt giving as much to the friendship as you are..like with phone calls...like how u can get pissed if u feel like your always calling them..istead of them callin you once and a while?You ever get like that with instant messaging ?and friend of mine got pissed at me cuz shes always iming me ...instead of me iming her ??? isnt that alil too much? The phone thing gets on my nerves. Im ALWAYS the one to call/plan/see what's up, etc... I think one day im just going to shut my phone off and see who comes calling then with IM's, i too sign on w/out knowing, so don't take it personally if i don't answer right away.But im's to me are short, quick things, whereas the phone is a totally different realm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Codica3 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 I never call or IM people unless I want something.I know that sounds selfish, but I don't mean I call them if I want a ride somewhere or something like that..But I only call them if I want to go out and I want to include them in my plans, etc..Yeah.. I know, I'm a bitch.. but I don't like chit-chatting on the phone.And I hate when people call me to say NOTHING. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 sometimes its nice to know that someone is calling "just because". Especially after I had a bad day or something funny happened...I dont get to see my friends that often so we call each other just for shits and giggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by Codica3 I never call or IM people unless I want something. I'm sort of the same way.I don't mind people iming / calling me to shoot the shit, but I normally don't IM / call anyone. I have this thing about "bothering" people, even tho I'm always told it's no biggie. It's just one of my lil' quirks.The comp is so impersonal sometimes, even if you are chatting humor / personality get lost in words. Tell your friend to take a pilll or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted February 12 Author Report Share Posted February 12 haha ..i agree i thought it was ridiculus...but with the phone i deffintly get pissed..somtimes u gotta cut that person off and see how good a friend really is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 Originally posted by solbeam sometimes its nice to know that someone is calling "just because". Especially after I had a bad day or something funny happened...I dont get to see my friends that often so we call each other just for shits and giggles Those are sometimes the best phone calls..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 they always make me feel good!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 feel good phone calls are a pick me up.Yesterday I called my friend as I was leaving work, just to tell her I heard two guys in midtown say " the chicks around here are cock-hungry"!lol...she got a good laugh, and then we hung up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cessy Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 Originally posted by fineones you know how ...at times you can feel like you 'friend' isnt giving as much to the friendship as you are..like with phone calls...like how u can get pissed if u feel like your always calling them..istead of them callin you once and a while?You ever get like that with instant messaging ?and friend of mine got pissed at me cuz shes always iming me ...instead of me iming her ??? isnt that alil too much? ya that is a little to extreme in my opinion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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