Cessy Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 well guys i just got in from going out with my ex mike, i don't know what to make of it and i need my cp friends advice, to make a long story short, he called me for vday and wanted to know what i was doing i told him i was stayin in and we went out tonight, i still have feelings for him and i know he does to but i kinda got mad at him tonight when i saw talkin to some girl he told me he hadnt seen her in awhile ya right but whatever i want to get back with him but i dont know what or how to do it cause if i have the signals wrong i dont want to look like a moron, what should i do or how can i win him back >>>> help!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 Well... I think you should just try to be sure you know what you're getting into before you get back together with him. After all... you did break up for a reason right?? Now, I'm not one to talk about ex boyfriends, since I'm still not over the one I dated last year... haha. But If you want to get back with him, I think the best thing to do is not push it, or rush it. Don't put any pressure on him. You shouldn't really have to "win him over," if he wants to be with you, he'll make that decision for himself. Just take things slow, and hang out with each other for a while, then things should just come together naturally, if it's meant to be.Hope that helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvle02 Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 I think you should just speak your mind and tell him how your feeling. Your pride is getting in your way of happiness any way you look at it. EitherA) He feels the same way and your wasting time that you could be togetheror He doesn't feel the same and your wasting time that could be spent looking for someone more deserving.Either way your just wasting time and need to get to it;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted February 18 Report Share Posted February 18 heres a guys opiioon dont paly games. if you wanna be wit him feel him out and then tell him if not move on. playing games only gets people hurt and might cost you a freind. Believe me as a guy i wish women would say what they really think. You ladies say one thing so we think so we take it as what you meant. Then next thing you know you are mad at us because we are suppose to read your mind. I Blame this al on shopping you ladies can ever make up your mind. Guys its different we find some comfortiabe jean well stick with them forever LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browneyedqt Posted February 18 Report Share Posted February 18 I don't really know about your situation, but here are my thoughts...they are ex's for a reason...I went through the on again off again thing with my ex and things would be good when we first got back together, but eventually we went back to the same old problems....I know it's hard to stay away from someone that you've shared time and good memories with. Yet, when it's over we seem to forget all the bad shit, but trust me it's still there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted February 18 Report Share Posted February 18 if something didnt work once doesnt mean it wont again. nothig wll ever work unless both people want it to. i mean you hav to be ble to get along and compromise too but if you are both going to give 100% then it can work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cessy Posted February 19 Author Report Share Posted February 19 thanx guys ur advice meant alot:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Originally posted by EUROCHIC99 thanx guys ur advice meant alot:D I think you and i would make a smurfy couple Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Originally posted by EUROCHIC99 well guys i just got in from going out with my ex mike, i don't know what to make of it and i need my cp friends advice, to make a long story short, he called me for vday and wanted to know what i was doing i told him i was stayin in and we went out tonight, i still have feelings for him and i know he does to but i kinda got mad at him tonight when i saw talkin to some girl he told me he hadnt seen her in awhile ya right but whatever i want to get back with him but i dont know what or how to do it cause if i have the signals wrong i dont want to look like a moron, what should i do or how can i win him back >>>> help!!! Ex's are a tough call... I think we all that one that we break the rules for.... If it feels right and you both want it, than do it, BUT if you have any second thoughts, walk away. You don't need to have your heart broken twice........Best of luck.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 short and sweet"an ex is an ex for a reason"i think at some point and time ppl would love to go back and rekindle an old flame but............you wind up right back were you left Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cessy Posted February 22 Author Report Share Posted February 22 Originally posted by gmccookny I think you and i would make a smurfy couple ;) ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 Ex are Exs sometimes just because the timing isnt right.at a different time you might feel what you want is the samebut then again nothing cures the last one like the next one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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