mssabina Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 i'm watching something on mtv about sex and they brought up the subject of guys sleeping with lots of girls... all of the guys they interviewed agreed that the more girls they have sex with, the more respect they get from their boys... my question is, what about what us girls think? no way in hell would i even be interested in a promiscuous guy. i find that disgusting and such a turn off... i understand friendship is more important than some fling, but fucking a bunch of girls to impress your friends just seems twisted to me... and i would think it's self-depreciating, but i guess since casual sex is "cool" then it's ok...and i know this whole double standard issue about male vs female promiscuity has been done to death, but seriously it's the same thing... if girls are sluts for fucking 50 guys, then guys should be sluts too for doing the same...just wanna know peoples opinions on this... i think it's sad people value their bodies so little Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snarfgirl22 Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 that was like a really good show especially for mtv...although it doesnt help the fact that women suffer from a double standard... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 So what am I not supposed to have an opinionShould I be quiet just because I'm a womanCall me a bitch cos I speak what's on my mindGuess it's easier for you to swallow if I sat and smiled When a female fires backSuddenly the target don't know how to actSo he does what any little boy will doMaking up a few false rumors or twoThat for sure is not a man to meSlanderin' names for popularityIt's sad you only get your fame through controversy But now it's time for me to come and give you more to sayThis is for my girls all around the worldWho've come across a man who don't respect your worthThinking all women should be seen, not heardSo what do we do girls?Shout louder!Letting them know we're gonna stand our groundLift your hands high and wave them proudTake a deep breath and say it loudNever can, never will, can't hold us downSo what am I not supposed to say what I'm sayingAre you offended by the message I'm bringingCall me whatever cuzyour words don't mean a thingGuess you ain't even a man enough to handle what I singIf you look back in historyIt's a common double standard of societyThe guy gets all the glory the more he can scoreWhile the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whoreI don't understand why it's okayThe guy can get away with it & the girl gets namedAll my ladies come together and make a changeStart a new beginning for us everybody sing[Lil' Kim:]Check it - Here's something I just can't understandIf the guy have three girls then he's the manHe can either give us some head, or sex her rawIf the girl do the same, then she's a whoreBut the table's about to turnI'll bet my fame on itCats take my ideas and put their name on itIt's aiight though, you can't hold me downI got to keep on movin'To all my girls with a man who be tryin to mackDo it right back to him and let that be thatYou need to let him know that his game is whackAnd Lil' Kim and Christina Aguilera got your backBut you're just a little boyThink you're so cute, so coyYou must talk so big To make up for smaller thingsi love this song Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 Not all guys think it's cool when their boys are sluttin' around. I know I wouldn't be proud of myself if I did.Maybe I thought it was cool when I was a teenager, seeing some of my boys hooking up with as many chicks as they can, but I think as you grow older (at least for me anyway) you quickly learn that it's quality not quantity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellinita Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 linabina, great song, I agree! Honestly, I don't really care how much play a guy gets. If I know a guy that keep seeping around with random chicks, w/e it doesn't bother me, I just won't give a shit. But I ain't touching him, that's for sure!! A guy does not at all look any "cooler" in my eyes if he gets layed every weekend by different girls. But I guess in the eyes of his boys, that raises his status?mssabina, I agree with you. Sometimes, it really does surprise me how little people value their bodies. While I do not really think sex is such a huge deal, it isn't exactly casual either. People should respect themselves more than to sleep around. Ok, I mean alot of us have had a one night stand once or twice or w/e in our lives.... and that's ok, it happens. But to let it happen, say every weekend or so, that's just gross...... why do some do that? Do they really not respect themselves to that degree?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runway Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 A lot of men love the satisfaction of having many women and not getting caught...its like a thrill or something.I think that once a cheater, always a cheater (for about 85% of promiscuous men). Lots of teens cheat, but I think once they hit 25 and up where they are able to have a serious relationship with someone, and they continue to sleep with a lot of women, chances are they are not the type to settle down, and will CONTINUE to play with lots of ladies. They are more satisfied with variety rather than a steady someone.Women are just as bad too sometimes. (im sorry to say) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 No, I definitely wouldn't judge men or women any differently when it comes to the promiscuity factory... I do not consider it desirable... but I also feel that people should live their lives as they see fit, and as long as it's not interfering with my happiness, please, feel free to sleep around as much as you want. I also try not to judge others by their past... because, hell, we've all got one of those...And btw, just because someone has a colorful past doesn't mean they will never be able to settle down... I've seen quite a lot of proof to the contrary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 30 Report Share Posted April 30 This just reminds me of another example of how television tries to set an example and show us what is kool, or what is in vogue.That's just ridiculous. I look at someone who sleeps around a lot just the same, if not lower, than somebody else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted May 1 Report Share Posted May 1 I totally agree with you Sabina. I've always found guys that sleep around a to be turn off. If they sleep with that many girls, they probably aren't very careful, and I think that's kind of scary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adonis55 Posted May 1 Report Share Posted May 1 i think both would be sluts then....if a guy sleeps around with a lot of women, he might get looked down upon by others, but he still manages to find more.same with girls, if a girl is sleeping around and is considered a slut, she still manages to find more people to sleep with.so just as some girls look down on male " sluts", the guys do the same on girls.... so both are the same, only depending on whos lookin at you.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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