fakearmani Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 This was written on the NJguido board..... thought it was quite intersting to see the responses....Sorry for those opposed to my view. I respect the opinions and feelings of others, so please do so with mine.I know about 10 couples in between the ages of 18-23 that are engaged or married.Most of these couples have never dated anyone else.My question is why are people rushing into this? How do you know that the opposite person is completely right for you without dating others and maturing with age?In my opinion, in between the ages of 18-23, all you really know about your significant other is what's their favorite school subject and how they like to party.Why are people rushing into marriage at a young age when they have never experienced the company of someone else, they do not know where their job is going to take them in the future and/or how they will mature after the college years and partying years are passed? Why not wait until you're financially secure and established in life, as well?I mean, don't you think that most divorces take place due to cheating and people torn between their careers? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere666 Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 Originally posted by fakearmani This was written on the NJguido board..... thought it was quite intersting to see the responses....Sorry for those opposed to my view. I respect the opinions and feelings of others, so please do so with mine.I know about 10 couples in between the ages of 18-23 that are engaged or married.Most of these couples have never dated anyone else.My question is why are people rushing into this? How do you know that the opposite person is completely right for you without dating others and maturing with age?In my opinion, in between the ages of 18-23, all you really know about your significant other is what's their favorite school subject and how they like to party.Why are people rushing into marriage at a young age when they have never experienced the company of someone else, they do not know where their job is going to take them in the future and/or how they will mature after the college years and partying years are passed? Why not wait until you're financially secure and established in life, as well?I mean, don't you think that most divorces take place due to cheating and people torn between their careers? i think it has somthign to do withthe war and 9/11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danfury Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 All of the questions you ask are Case by Case situations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
njstacked2 Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 I am ENGAGED...We dated for 8 years...we have lived tgether for the past 2 years...I think it was time....To be honest no other girl can ever compare to her in my mind.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyco Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 Originally posted by fakearmani This was written on the NJguido board..... thought it was quite intersting to see the responses....Sorry for those opposed to my view. I respect the opinions and feelings of others, so please do so with mine.I know about 10 couples in between the ages of 18-23 that are engaged or married.Most of these couples have never dated anyone else.My question is why are people rushing into this? How do you know that the opposite person is completely right for you without dating others and maturing with age?In my opinion, in between the ages of 18-23, all you really know about your significant other is what's their favorite school subject and how they like to party.Why are people rushing into marriage at a young age when they have never experienced the company of someone else, they do not know where their job is going to take them in the future and/or how they will mature after the college years and partying years are passed? Why not wait until you're financially secure and established in life, as well?I mean, don't you think that most divorces take place due to cheating and people torn between their careers? I agree about getting married young but if you've found a person who makes you happy, should you leave them just because you haven't been with other people? if you're happy, all you're doing is leaving that to try to find the same thing again...........you will never be able to be with everyone before making a decision............all that matters is that you are happy with whomever you are with, no matter if they are the only one you've been with or not........... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badassmafuka Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 It is very hard to find a great girl I agree with getting married young but you can be in your mid 20's and have a long engagement Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternitygirl Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Originally posted by badassmafuka It is very hard to find a great girl I agree with getting married young but you can be in your mid 20's and have a long engagement you have a great girl and i am so happy for the two of you:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calebb Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 I'm sorry I didnt read all of that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClubGirl Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Hello...I'm 27 and I'm married..My hubby is also 27..We started dating at age 15 as sophmores in high school in 1991..We then got engaged in Cancun in 1999 at age 23..We had a long engagement and enjoyed that part of our life and got more financially stable and then got married September 2002 at age 26 and bought a condo..So far I feel we did everything the right way, for us anyway...We will wait still 2-3 more years to begin our own family..We want to now enjoy this part of our life..Not in any rush to do anything..Everyone has their own opinions on what is the right age and so on..But there really is no right age, is there?..It is when you are ready yourselves..I have only been with my husband, since we have been together for almost 12 years total..Some agree and some do not..But if you are happy with the person and you love them dearly, why try to be with someone else and break it off to be with someone else.."If it ain't broken, don't try to fix it"..I love that quote.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calebb Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Originally posted by ClubGirl Hello...I'm 27 and I'm married..My hubby is also 27..We started dating at age 15 as sophmores in high school in 1991..We then got engaged in Cancun in 1999 at age 23..We had a long engagement and enjoyed that part of our life and got more financially stable and then got married September 2002 at age 26 and bought a condo..So far I feel we did everything the right way, for us anyway...We will wait still 2-3 more years to begin our own family..We want to now enjoy this part of our life..Not in any rush to do anything..Everyone has their own opinions on what is the right age and so on..But there really is no right age, is there?..It is when you are ready yourselves..I have only been with my husband, since we have been together for almost 12 years total..Some agree and some do not..But if you are happy with the person and you love them dearly, why try to be with someone else and break it off to be with someone else.."If it ain't broken, don't try to fix it"..I love that quote.. I'm sorry I didnt read all of that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kikilicious Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 I think if you know you found the right one then why wait. Life is to short to wait around to get married and start a family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calebb Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Originally posted by kikilicious I think if you know you found the right one then why wait. Life is to short to wait around to get married and start a family. k. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
test22 Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 my ex that i have just been lucky enough to get rid of always wanted to get married and have kids and used to hound me about it a lot even started getting crazy towards the end like if u don't put a ring on my finger u don't love me and if u don't cum in me and knock me up u don't love me well fuk at 21 I'm not about to have no wifes or kids and she was like 19 and tho it was a good relationship all the wife and kids talked freaked me the fuk out and i stopped fukin her for like 2 months towards the end because every time i looked at her i was just disgusted with shit she said and how she wanted to lock my life down it got so depressing that i started becoming a prick and we broke up right now its on and off but fuk i hope its more off then on because the relationships too much drama but its hard to say bye for good so I'm stuck till i get really pissed and just do it lol but for the topic yea young marriages are crazy its cute if the peopler were virgins and Hs sweet hearts and all but for the most part u need to go out have fun so when it is time to settle down u aren't siting back and thinking u missed out on life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badassmafuka Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 I think alot of people are getting married young becuase of 9/11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trippinkittyk Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 fuK gettin Married....weLL f0r now @ least...i'm 2 young @ least i think....whats the rush ya kno? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eddie3 Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Originally posted by fakearmani I know about 10 couples in between the ages of 18-23 Most of these couples have never dated anyone else. bingo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calebb Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 I accidentally clicked "post reply"dont mistake this for caring Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calebb Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Originally posted by eddie3 bingo ya, but what do you drink? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephanie74 Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 I realy dont think age has anything to do with it at all....if you found the 1 person that is your best friend, lover, and soul mate then I say do it!!!True Love is very hard to find....but when you find it you'll know b/c nothing else matters....beleive me I know.......that is the way I look at it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badassmafuka Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 I say get married at 78 years old Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eddie3 Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Originally posted by calebb ya, but what do you drink? ppl get accustomed to being with that person that they couldnt imagine being without them...so they take it a step further...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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