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replicorexxx

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God damn, I hate all you girls that want to cudle in public. Do you not see that you are slowly killing me every time that you hold my hand. I dont want to be huged and held. I want my f*cking space. Is that to hard to understand. Guys am I right or am I right. Girls please help me understand why you have to be all over you man all the time. Just cause I say that I do not want to cudle dosn't mean I don't ever do it. There is a small amount that I allow for, this time is when we are alone and not in public. But she wants to make it public, all my friends know that we have been going out since day one, Yet she still has to try and kiss me in front of all of them. C'mon. Why do gurls have to do this, Its almost as if she is marking her teritory. Can you please help me. I have talked to her numerous times. I just dont know what to do anymore.

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Dude... I like PDA. That's mainly because I really like my girl and I'm attracted to her. Some people are just not into it, and that's fine, but I never had a problem hooking up randomly at a club or holding hands with a girlfriend. So I think it depends on the guy. But if she's your girlfriend and you're worried about her "marking her territory", then maybe you're in a phase in your life when you still have many wild oats to sow, which is fine. But social psychologists consider hand holding to be exactly that -- marking territory for mates. So maybe you're just not in the phase of your life for committment.

My advice is either go with the flow and hold the damn girl's hand, or break it off and have some conquests.

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Originally posted by replicorexxx

God damn, I hate all you girls that want to cudle in public. Do you not see that you are slowly killing me every time that you hold my hand. I dont want to be huged and held. I want my f*cking space. Is that to hard to understand. Guys am I right or am I right. Girls please help me understand why you have to be all over you man all the time. Just cause I say that I do not want to cudle dosn't mean I don't ever do it. There is a small amount that I allow for, this time is when we are alone and not in public. But she wants to make it public, all my friends know that we have been going out since day one, Yet she still has to try and kiss me in front of all of them. C'mon. Why do gurls have to do this, Its almost as if she is marking her teritory. Can you please help me. I have talked to her numerous times. I just dont know what to do anymore.

I don't like TOO much PDA.....But hand holding.....a quick kiss here & there isn't hurting anyone....I mean...I wouldn't be alllll over a guy in the middle of the street....but some people are like that

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Originally posted by sweetie029

I don't like TOO much PDA.....But hand holding.....a quick kiss here & there isn't hurting anyone....I mean...I wouldn't be alllll over a guy in the middle of the street....but some people are like that

:werd: im the same way, too much of it in public is not my thang now when we're alone is another story :tongue:
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