deepspell Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 god....i get so depressed when i talk to mine.....thinking about all the good times and how i was such a prick to let what happened happen.... Destiny 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 I know the feeling all too well... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 i think mine comes on here.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamme Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 i think mine comes on here.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 i know exactly what you're talking about....why dont u try to see if it works out, give it another try Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamme Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 X Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted May 18 Author Report Share Posted May 18 god im so depressed now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 god im so depressed now Dont let it get to you... Do you and your X talk anymore or no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 i know... he's registered here, and i know he used to check it out, lurked, never really posted, don't know if he still does.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 same here, but mine still does read my posts and asks me q's about them, lolAl don't be stressing this.....like i told u b4 i know u will find the right one soon i know... he's registered here, and i know he used to check it out, lurked, never really posted, don't know if he still does.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamme Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 i know... he's registered here, and i know he used to check it out, lurked, never really posted, don't know if he still does.... CP is my dirty little secret never told anyone about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 CP is my dirty little secret never told anyone about itlol, a few of my friends are registered, but i don't think they check it out anymore... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 lol, a few of my friends are registered, but i don't think they check it out anymore......i'm really your 12 year old girl cousin on your father's sister's mother's cousin's side from his third marriage... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted May 18 Author Report Share Posted May 18 yea we talk sometimes.....i should really avoid it...its completly my fault that i cant find anyone.....i cant get over how i messed up with this chic and im afraid if i find a new one as good as her that i would hurt her too....im also afraid of getting hurt. Had nothing to do with cheating...cuz ive been cheated on and i would never put that on someone....its more like not appriciating what i had and just letting the romance simmer down...i feel like my radar is off too man........my friends have to tell me "her...over there...12 o clock...shes checkin you out..." THen i do nutin bout it....i have no idea what the hell is wrong with me....i know theres more fish in the sea but its a combination of lack of confidence and not being over my ex i think....i need to find a hole and go hide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 My ex and I are really good friends, as a matter of fact he's friends with my boyfriend too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 god....i get so depressed when i talk to mine.....thinking about all the good times and how i was such a prick to let what happened happen....im just in the midst of a breakup, and it does suck it's much better when both parties accept the breakup. But that can't always be. Im just distracting myself and looking forward to things in the future. It's the only way to get over it.Realize you'll talk to and date lots of girls B4 you find the one you want to be serious with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 i felt that way for awhile... i think for me it was the not being over my ex factor.. or the fact that i didn't meet anyone who treated me as well as he did, or that i clicked with as well as with him.. but then I was just like fuck him, and moved on cause i wasn't gonna dwell over some boy... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted May 18 Author Report Share Posted May 18 i think the biggest blow was to my confidence.....i honestly dont think i can land somenoe as beautiful with a wonderful personality as her.....guess time heals all wounds.....its certainly taking a hell of a while tho.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 i think the biggest blow was to my confidence.....i honestly dont think i can land somenoe as beautiful with a wonderful personality as her.....guess time heals all wounds.....its certainly taking a hell of a while tho....wurd i feel you on that, my g/f of 4 years was the same.Luckily I don't have no bad feelings for her but also I don't talk to her anymore. I think it's easier not to bother with exes.The few exes that still contact me get on my nerves so fuckin much Time will heal the wound, you won't forget and from time to time it comes back n bugs ya but you'll learn n grow from this experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted May 18 Author Report Share Posted May 18 yea i guess your right man.....i dunno im just really fucked up over it.....everything else in my life is just perfect....if i could find out what the hell was wrong with me regarding my love life and just get over her finally i think i would be completely happy..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 yea we talk sometimes.....i should really avoid it...its completly my fault that i cant find anyone.....i cant get over how i messed up with this chic and im afraid if i find a new one as good as her that i would hurt her too....im also afraid of getting hurt. Had nothing to do with cheating...cuz ive been cheated on and i would never put that on someone....its more like not appriciating what i had and just letting the romance simmer down...i feel like my radar is off too man........my friends have to tell me "her...over there...12 o clock...shes checkin you out..." THen i do nutin bout it....i have no idea what the hell is wrong with me....i know theres more fish in the sea but its a combination of lack of confidence and not being over my ex i think....i need to find a hole and go hide dont give up hope hun. if you really want her back, then go for it. my bf that im with now and i went out before...and he made some really really bad mistakes...and he did everything in his power to get me back, it took something that shocked the hell out of me but it worked....we have an amazing relationshipif you want her back, then try everything possible to do so, when you feel as though you've exhausted every option, then not only will you know that theres a reason why you two aren't together, but you will also have no regrets and "what if"'s Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kahn Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 dont give up hope hun. if you really want her back, then go for it. my bf that im with now and i went out before...and he made some really really bad mistakes...and he did everything in his power to get me back, it took something that shocked the hell out of me but it worked....we have an amazing relationshipif you want her back, then try everything possible to do so, when you feel as though you've exhausted every option, then not only will you know that theres a reason why you two aren't together, but you will also have no regrets and "what if"'skind of tried this, it didn't work......but Destiny is right in saying that you'll have no what if's and regrets if you do make your best efforts........the icing on the cake was yesterday my ex calling me and telling me she's pregnant.....the father is some joke who I've met a few times.......disappears for days when he starts doing dope......real nice........nothing like an ex calling you to tell you how bad she fucked her life up.........once the excitement of knowing how fucked she was wore off, then I finally felt bad for her......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted May 18 Author Report Share Posted May 18 i have a ounce of hope which i know i shouldnt...i honestly think it wont happen....but what really buggs me out is that it has effected my confidence level soooo much that its preventing me from seeing other peeps....i get so easily intimidated lately if i see a hot chic checking me out that its almost like denile. like "nah she cant possibly be looking at me" and i slack off and ignore it. and if i see someone i do like i have no confidence to walk up to her what so ever.....i dunno im fucked up in the head....wish i could figure it out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 just do it! you won't know if it's a good thing to do unless u actually go for it........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 have that little shred of hope and go for it if you wanthowever, you should never let someone effect your confidence...its the one few things thats TOTALLY yours, understand that you're a great person or else she wouldnt have been with you in the first place...it'll get easier with time...just make sure that your heart doesnt rule your head, causing you to get completely depressed. if you can't change it, then you get upset over it for a bit, then move on bc you have a life of your own to live. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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