hippity-hop Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 I just met someone on-line and he wants me to meet him for dinner. Have any of you ever gone through with something like this?------------------hippity-hopOh Jesus What A Luxurywww.hippity-hop.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bastardino Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 I have met a number of people online, including this board. Total people met = 17 total people I had sex with = 0. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hippity-hop Posted October 31 Author Report Share Posted October 31 Originally posted by bastardino:I have met a number of people online, including this board. Total people met = 17 total people I had sex with = 0. I'm really not sure about this, he seems really nice but I've seen the news and I know whats out there....------------------hippity-hopOh Jesus What A Luxurywww.hippity-hop.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Precious Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 Sure. . . Just make it a group thing. This way if he is not what he seems, at least you will not be alone. If he doesn't agree with you idea of making plans with you and say a friend. . . well then - DON'T GO.People pretty much understand this stuff today. It's good to be careful though. You never know.Good Luck! PeAcE & LoVe ------------------CoSmic Karma Productionse-mail: cosmic.karma@lycos.com"MUSIC. . . MAKES THE PEOPLE. . . COME TOGETHER" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ibhugh Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 Haven't done it myself, but do know some people who have had success with it. If you get along with the person on-line that's great. You should be able to get along with the person off-line as well. Have you seen a pic of this person. I know people can send fake pics, but if this person wants to meet you they will probably be honest about the pic. Dinner can't hurt. You might wish to try some shorter type of visit. A coffee or something, that way if things go poorly, you don't have to put up with it for very long. If thing work, then you can suggest dinner or a walk or something... whatever. Just make sure the first time you meet is realtively public, it's ultimately safer...Good luck. Hope it works out for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hippity-hop Posted October 31 Author Report Share Posted October 31 Originally posted by Precious:Sure. . . Just make it a group thing. This way if he is not what he seems, at least you will not be alone. If he doesn't agree with you idea of making plans with you and say a friend. . . well then - DON'T GO.People pretty much understand this stuff today. It's good to be careful though. You never know.Good Luck! PeAcE & LoVe Thank you so much, it seems really innocent but he did want us to be alone! I am new to this whole thing, but I think I might just bite the bullet and go for it! He might be the one (god I hope so)!------------------hippity-hopOh Jesus What A Luxurywww.hippity-hop.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_pharmacist Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 I say as long as the boy is paying....free dinner is free dinner. Group things are good, both on and off the field. so hippity....kick it and let us know the outcome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 i met rob because i needed a <A HREF="http://www.clubplanet.com/guestlists/" TARGET="_blank"> guestlist</A> . . . and he and i kept emailing each other, etc., and started talking on the phone, and eventually i was like "come over." so he did . . . and we hung out a couple more times . . .and i am absolutely totally always and forever in love with him. (i know i'm a big loser, but i'm happier than ever, so screw you all if you can't appreciate that! )just be careful!!!!i've met so many people from this board . . and you never know . . .Dinner in a public place seems safe enough . . . you could always have some friends go along and sit at a different table but where they can watch for anything weird going on . . . but if you feel you need to be that cautious, then maybe you shouldn't go.i'd say give it a shot . . luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."**NEW EMAIL!!** brandie@powerpuff.com AIM: loves2coxi love Rob *always&forever* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hippity-hop Posted October 31 Author Report Share Posted October 31 Originally posted by brandie:i met rob because i needed a <A HREF="http://www.clubplanet.com/guestlists/" TARGET="_blank"> <A HREF="http://www.clubplanet.com/guestlists/" TARGET="_blank"> guestlist</A> </A> . . . and he and i kept emailing each other, etc., and started talking on the phone, and eventually i was like "come over." so he did . . . and we hung out a couple more times . . .and i am absolutely totally always and forever in love with him. (i know i'm a big loser, but i'm happier than ever, so screw you all if you can't appreciate that! )just be careful!!!!i've met so many people from this board . . and you never know . . .Dinner in a public place seems safe enough . . . you could always have some friends go along and sit at a different table but where they can watch for anything weird going on . . . but if you feel you need to be that cautious, then maybe you shouldn't go.i'd say give it a shot . . luv,brandieThis is what I dream of!------------------hippity-hopOh Jesus What A Luxurywww.hippity-hop.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bastardino Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 Im sorry but you guys are retarded. Meeting someone online isn't any more dangerous than meeting someone in a club, giving them your phone # and then going out on a date with them one on one. IN fact it's safer. you already know a few things about the person, hopefully you've talked on the phone. ALthough, i do know that most guys that look for girls online can't find one in real life. me for example Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Precious Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 I have to disagree with you on this one. I feel that meeting a person online IS different. . . mainly because words are a lot louder than than actions. If you meet someone face to face, you get the "1st impression" about a person. Online. . . you get the impression they want to give you. . . not necessarily how they are.So yes. . .it CAN be more dangerous than meeting a person in a club. . . not to mention a club is considered a public place.Just my opinion. Good luck Sweetie & enjoy. .just follow your gut feeling!If you feel it's innocent than it probably is.~PeAcE & LoVe~ Precious PS - Let me know how it goes!! ------------------CoSmic Karma Productionse-mail: cosmic.karma@lycos.com"MUSIC. . . MAKES THE PEOPLE. . . COME TOGETHER" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumbleboy Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 I'd also have to say that internet dating cumz with it's own particular risks. Of the nasty people who prey on other people, some are most comfortable using the internet. Obviously, it's the smallest minority of people you'd ever meet online, just like "real life". It's just always good to be careful. Good luck, hippity-hop. Maybe you're finding someone nice! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vampienyc10 Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 You have to be careful..if you want ..meet him in a group..let's say your friends and his friends if you wnat to meet him then meet him.. but in a crowded place...Be careful..I can't stress that enough.. Alot of sick assholes out there.------------------------------------------@vampienyc10vampie@aol.com "One is not born a woman, one becomes one."- Simone de Beauvoir Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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