FlipsSOE Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 i had a one night stand with a girl over a year ago, and we still talk?? it happened last spring, she lives pretty far in jersey. cherry hill i believe, near philly. in fact, she goes to school philly. i'm not sure how it happened, but one night, she drives all the way up here. we fuck like 5 times. prob best sex i've ever had. god it was amazing. anyway, we talk about 1-2 times a month. we have great convo, we call each other. it's very strange. we'll leave each other messages, and talk for half hour- 1 hour every time. i've never seen her since. i've made it clear i don't wanna drive all the way out there, and she's made the same thing clear. but why can i not get this girl out of my head, and out of my life. not that i want to. am i holding onto a fantasy?? i mean, i've been with other girls since, even went out with a girl since. but i don't know, why am i carrying on this "long-distance, no contact" relationship, 15-16 months later?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 i had a one night stand with a girl over a year ago, and we still talk?? it happened last spring, she lives pretty far in jersey. cherry hill i believe, near philly. in fact, she goes to school philly. i'm not sure how it happened, but one night, she drives all the way up here. we fuck like 5 times. prob best sex i've ever had. god it was amazing. anyway, we talk about 1-2 times a month. we have great convo, we call each other. it's very strange. we'll leave each other messages, and talk for half hour- 1 hour every time. i've never seen her since. i've made it clear i don't wanna drive all the way out there, and she's made the same thing clear. but why can i not get this girl out of my head, and out of my life. not that i want to. am i holding onto a fantasy?? i mean, i've been with other girls since, even went out with a girl since. but i don't know, why am i carrying on this "long-distance, no contact" relationship, 15-16 months later?? is she rediculously hott ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 cuz u want to fuck her again...ur just to lazy to ride out there!!!!!!!!!!! i guess!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nutcase34 Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 cuz u want to fuck her again...ur just to lazy to ride out there!!!!!!!!!!! i guess!!!!!!!!!thats what I am thinking. prolly just waiting to see if she gives in to drive back up. she did it once. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 I don't think it's strange at all, I have a few I still talk to like that....some wasn't just once...but, it just wasn't "relationship" reasons to stay together, but friendship wise was ok.It's normal, and actually, quite healthy. It means neither of your egos got in the way of stuff....and friendship can remain.pretty cool actually. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 **the only suggestion I have, though...is...if this sort of thing (friendship) bothers the person you are currently with....the person's feelings you with, has to come first.that is just how I feel about the situation, in my amateur psychological view of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlipsSOE Posted May 27 Author Report Share Posted May 27 **the only suggestion I have, though...is...if this sort of thing (friendship) bothers the person you are currently with....the person's feelings you with, has to come first.that is just how I feel about the situation, in my amateur psychological view of it. muzikchick, i hate it when u make sense. please go back to speaking jibberish and making absolutely no sense. i like you better that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 muzikchick, i hate it when u make sense. please go back to speaking jibberish and making absolutely no sense. i like you better that way. :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mursa Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 go read my NEUROCHEMISTRY of love n lust THREAD . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 I know with gas prices the way they are, these liasons would become increasingly impractical. I think it'd be in your best intrests to find a 1/2-way point between the 2 of you, a roach motel of some sorts with hourly rates (to greater facilitate the economics of this) and go meet there for sex on an as-needed basis. It's the only practical solution to this problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlipsSOE Posted May 28 Author Report Share Posted May 28 ou812, thank u. atleast, you provided reason- gas is a bitch. you throw in tolls all the way out there and gas, and your talking 50 bucks maybe round trip.... it'd prob be better taking the amtrack, and less of a hassle. yeah, she was pretty hot. and yeah, i wish she would drive up again. i'd even give her gas money this time, and even pay for the condoms this go round, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 even in jibberish there is a MESSage, you just have to find witch pertains to you.~~i'm a shady lady. ~Butt, true blue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 p.s.--men required to supply their own suit of armor, otherwise....it ain't happening....sorry. God didn't give me the equiptment for that, therefore, I don't pay for that....and if I ain't in love...............................nevermind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 muzikchick, i hate it when u make sense. please go back to speaking jibberish and making absolutely no sense. i like you better that way. jibberish rocks konkur! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted May 28 Report Share Posted May 28 geez....well, what do you expect from a J.A.P. = JU American Princess***Remember that!****In Euro tones J sounds like Y...can u figure it out? EZ. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlipsSOE Posted May 28 Author Report Share Posted May 28 funny, as i write this- she leaves me a detailed message last night telling me shes gonna be on the jersey shore and her asking if theres any way i could go out there for the weekend. awww. wish i could...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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