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i think its true that the majority of men like white chicks, but most men would also not have a problem dating a woman of color...have you forgotten latinas :D

i think its all because of the white beauty ideal that is and has been so heavily promoted by western media for like, ever, which also has a very strong influence on youth all over the world (think "cultural hegemony").

when i was back in my country of origin i was about 8 or 9 when western channels started coming in on cable, and because 95% or so of all actors on TV were white, alot of ppl. actually believed that the US was indeed like that...just white ppl. and almost no one of color...when in fact the true diversity of the country had hardly been represented on TV, thus misleading alot of ppl. in other countries who had never been to the US. so when i finally moved to LA i was pleasantly surprised to find so much more diversity than i could've ever imagined based on watching TV :funny:

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i really do not believe that that is the reason i just feel the majority of people are attracted to white people.

i think mixed chicks are hot butnot black chicks

i think latino chicks are way hot but they are not really "women of color"

some asians are hot

black chicks just seem kind of dirty

white chicks seem clean

im sure its not the case of everyone but its just the first impression i get from them.

and its the truth in the majority of people as much as you think im a racist im not i just speak the truth and most people cannot handle it

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i never said that the majority of ppl. are not attracted to white chicks, just that white chicks aren't the *only* types that they find attractive. and yes the darker skinned latin women would be considered women of color, while their light or even white skinned counterparts (for instance the blonde white chix of colombia) would be considered white.

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i really do not believe that that is the reason i just feel the majority of people are attracted to white people.

i think mixed chicks are hot butnot black chicks

i think latino chicks are way hot but they are not really "women of color"

some asians are hot

black chicks just seem kind of dirty

white chicks seem clean

im sure its not the case of everyone but its just the first impression i get from them.

and its the truth in the majority of people as much as you think im a racist im not i just speak the truth and most people cannot handle it

Everything you just stated is your opinion and are definitely NOT facts. You're absolutely entitled to your opinion but don't try to speak "the truth" for everyone...

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i really do not believe that that is the reason i just feel the majority of people are attracted to white people.

i think mixed chicks are hot butnot black chicks

i think latino chicks are way hot but they are not really "women of color"

some asians are hot

black chicks just seem kind of dirty

white chicks seem clean

im sure its not the case of everyone but its just the first impression i get from them.

and its the truth in the majority of people as much as you think im a racist im not i just speak the truth and most people cannot handle it

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the majority of people feel this way but dont admit it. thats why the majority of people date white chicks and find white chicks more attractive PLAIN AND SIMPLE.

That's not true. A lot of white men have fetishes for asian women and exclusively date them. A lot of white men also have a thing for black women. Look at Robert De Niro. I think when you live in a country where the majority is white, it stands to reason that the majority will prefer whites, since most people deep down are probably most attracted to their own (not racist, just probably human nature).

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It is true that when I was a little naive girl growing up in the suburbs I had never known any black guys, so I would never have dreamed of dating one. But, then when I moved to Chicago I learned that I liked a little flava in my life. :makeout:

People are only racist because they are brought up that way. I dated a black guy for 2 years and he was great (we broke up because he went off to law school and the long distance thing wouldn't have worked out).

At first my FATHER was shocked and mad when I brought him home, because once again he had never been around anybody. But then he found out that unlike the losers I had been banging, I was serious about this guy and he was a great guy - going to college, polite. They started going to football games together and leaving me at home. :mad: haha

And the two of them still talk by email sometimes (I think my dad gets free tax advice from him).

EDUCATION IS THE ANSWER

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from what I see in my area, there are a lot of black guy/white girl couples, but hardly any black girl/white guy couples. I also notice that I see a lot of asian girl/white guy couples, but hardly any asian guy/white girl couples. Which leads me to believe that Asian guys and black girls need to start dating each other. :love:

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i lived in the virginia beach/norfolk area of virginia for 4 years, and the oddest thing was the ammount of white girls with black guys. never in my life before then had i ever met a girl that dated black guys exclusively. just bizarre to me. i'm from nyc and had seen every type of interracial relationship, and it was a big surprise...me and my friends used to joke that most of the white girls that were into black guys were ok to let them hit for the other team cuz they were usually on the bigger side...hahaha

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i lived in the virginia beach/norfolk area of virginia for 4 years, and the oddest thing was the ammount of white girls with black guys. never in my life before then had i ever met a girl that dated black guys exclusively. just bizarre to me. i'm from nyc and had seen every type of interracial relationship, and it was a big surprise...me and my friends used to joke that most of the white girls that were into black guys were ok to let them hit for the other team cuz they were usually on the bigger side...hahaha

I think the biggest difference I see between black guys and white guys is that black guys "tend" to be more confident and confidence is sexy.

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If you like a certin race and are attracted to them how could that be racist??? You like them.

I think racisim involves hate and sepratism and that is not the case here.

I think it can be considered somewhat racist if you do NOT like someone just because of the their race. Like if you meet a attractive black girl and dismiss the possibility of dating just because she is black.

For example: I happen to be attracted to Hispanic & Asian girls. Does it make me a racist because I like Latinas & Asians or does it make me racist because I am not as attracted to other races???

We are all attracted to certin phyiscal charactoristics and I dont think it can be considered racist.

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it is a rare combo, but when they get together they make good looking kids. See Naomi Campbell....

well not always, i knew a black female/white male couple while in the air force and their kids was fugly, sorry to say....... however my kids are mixed too, my ex husb is black and theyre gorgeous!!! lol oh and until recently i exclusively dated black guys.....

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You might not be racist but people are very prone to having certain phenotypical attractions. I'm rarely to never turned on my white(esp. blonde) women in person. Porn is different, but that's some psycho-social deal. =D

I like darker chicks, darker hair. Middle eastern women and girls who are mixed with black do it for me. That's just me...

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I FINDE IT MORE LIKE: TASTE OR TYPES not racist....

for example my taste is white guys normal type not a GQ man I hate when a man looks more like a woman than a real man....

I didnt like blond guys until I meat guy richie now my taste change so you are welcome Brad pitt :drool:

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