weyes Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 i posted this in another thread today in response to someone who said that one never falls out of love with someone one was truly in love with in the first place. that is to say that, if a person were to fall "out of love" with someone, the former was never in love with the latter to begin with. here was my response:i used to believe that, but it isn't true for me, anymore. i remember the first time i fell in love, it was so intense that i said, "love is not voluntary and love does not fade." i am very glad that i was wrong about the last part. if it were impossible to fall out of love, each breakup of a serious relationship would leave a burden one would carry for the remainder of his/her life. imagine someone trying to move on with his/her life if s/he couldn't let go of [the baggage of] former loves. trying to forget (though i don't think forgetting is possible) is the only coping mechanism we have so that we can continue to live and to love.tune in tomorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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