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I am a 30yr old, single, professional female who is having a hard time with the opposite sex. For some reason I find myself to be mainly attracted to nice Jewish boys but because I am not Jewish myself they dont seem to take my feelings for them seriously. I have dated several Jewish men but when it comes down to actually having a commitment with them I get the same answer.."...but you're not Jewish." Can you give me any advice as to how I can either get over my attraction to these men or how I could possibly convince them that I am worth the time and effort?

Thank you in advance for any advice you can offer.

Signed,

Trapped In Jewish Love

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Guest web_norah

dear Carisa, go see a rabbi, befriend him and he might be able to help you convert, thats the only way to do it. (if you really want to date a jew).

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Guest Abraham Abromowitz

Dear CrzyC,

This problem is more common than you think. Both women and men find themselves in this exact position. Some of my friends have married people who are not Jewish and have gone on to have wonderful lives together. And of course sometimes it does not work out. Many marriages between people of the same religions often don’t work. My point is that when it is true love it conquers all. One day I might find myself in love with a non-Jew. I know I'll be true to my heart and give her all the love she deserves if she is really "the one".

Without knowing you I can't really give specific advice. I can understand how you could be very attracted to Jewish men. We are kind, funny, fantastic lovers, unselfish and great dancers.

Shalom & Love

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Guest Abraham Abromowitz

dear Carisa, go see a rabbi, befriend him and he might be able to help you convert, thats the only way to do it. (if you really want to date a jew).

This was actually a joke but since Pod moved my thread it kind of lost the humor. Thanks though Norah. ;)

There is truth in humor and I do care. If you ever need to talk I'll listen.

Shalom & Love

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I am a 30yr old, single, professional female who is having a hard time with the opposite sex. For some reason I find myself to be mainly attracted to nice Jewish boys but because I am not Jewish myself they dont seem to take my feelings for them seriously. I have dated several Jewish men but when it comes down to actually having a commitment with them I get the same answer.."...but you're not Jewish." Can you give me any advice as to how I can either get over my attraction to these men or how I could possibly convince them that I am worth the time and effort?

Thank you in advance for any advice you can offer.

Signed,

Trapped In Jewish Love

Now I know you not kidding......because you once told me that you like your men circumcised. So now I know why your always flirting with Bling....hmmmmmmmmmm

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Guest web_norah

Dear CrzyC,

This problem is more common than you think. Both women and men find themselves in this exact position. Some of my friends have married people who are not Jewish and have gone on to have wonderful lives together. And of course sometimes it does not work out. Many marriages between people of the same religions often don’t work. My point is that when it is true love it conquers all. One day I might find myself in love with a non-Jew. I know I'll be true to my heart and give her all the love she deserves if she is really "the one".

Without knowing you I can't really give specific advice. I can understand how you could be very attracted to Jewish men. We are kind, funny, fantastic lovers, unselfish and great dancers.

Shalom & Love

thats a generalization....what makes jewish men such stallions in the sex department? what blasphemy!

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Guest Abraham Abromowitz

Dear CrzyC,

This problem is more common than you think. Both women and men find themselves in this exact position. Some of my friends have married people who are not Jewish and have gone on to have wonderful lives together. And of course sometimes it does not work out. Many marriages between people of the same religions often don’t work. My point is that when it is true love it conquers all. One day I might find myself in love with a non-Jew. I know I'll be true to my heart and give her all the love she deserves if she is really "the one".

Without knowing you I can't really give specific advice. I can understand how you could be very attracted to Jewish men. We are kind, funny, fantastic lovers, unselfish and great dancers.

Shalom & Love

thats a generalization....what makes jewish men such stallions in the sex department? what blasphemy!

I have been told by women who have had the pleasure of experienceing both, that Jewish men are very giving and unselfish in bed. This one Italian girl in particluar said she wanted to marry a Jewish man just for that reason alone. There was also a very nice Puerto Rican girl I knew who said the same thing.

Shalom & Love

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Guest web_norah

I dated a jewish guy once.. if he wasn't coked out, the sex was pretty good..

;D

there you go. see, i dont think jewish men are stallions just cos you know, the foreskin issue at hand. thats like saying french are studs, latins are xyz and the list goes on

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Guest r3nz0

I dated a jewish guy once.. if he wasn't coked out, the sex was pretty good..

;D

Isn't it usually because he was coked out that the sex is good? :P

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Guest LeVeL

No dear, when he was too coked out, his dick wouldn't function..

no fun for Lola..

lmao

Lola where is the Viagra when you need it.....huh

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Guest web_norah

No dear, when he was too coked out, his dick wouldn't function..

no fun for Lola..

lmao

Lola where is the Viagra when you need it.....huh

viagra and marching powder, might as well have an ambulance -thats a free heart attack -

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Guest mikepayne

I am a 30yr old, single, professional female who is having a hard time with the opposite sex.

You need someone to help scratch the itch?

;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

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I am a 30yr old, single, professional female who is having a hard time with the opposite sex. For some reason I find myself to be mainly attracted to nice Jewish boys but because I am not Jewish myself they dont seem to take my feelings for them seriously. I have dated several Jewish men but when it comes down to actually having a commitment with them I get the same answer.."...but you're not Jewish." Can you give me any advice as to how I can either get over my attraction to these men or how I could possibly convince them that I am worth the time and effort?

Thank you in advance for any advice you can offer.

Signed,

Trapped In Jewish Love

Now I know you not kidding......because you once told me that you like your men circumcised. So now I know why your always flirting with Bling....hmmmmmmmmmm

OMG LOL. yes im circumscized . when i was a week old i had my bris. and at 13 i had my barmitzvah .. i have the video if anyone wants to check it.....

regarding carisa's letter to abe. its a tough one. as a Jew i believe it is easier to get serious within our own religion. My uncle for instance married a non-jew and in his case it brought up problems as to having kids because the kids always take the religion of the mother and well. we are a proud people and fond of our heritage and upbringing.

Not saying its not great to be Catholic, or Christian or muslim. its all good. but like Pod said Jewish families ( is much like greek familes........ if u saw my big fat greek wedding. thats a good indicator)

though of course when true love hits it all goes out the window.. i will always follow true love over standard protocol and customs...... though havent been in love so i cant really comment on how i would react.

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I am a 30yr old, single, professional female who is having a hard time with the opposite sex. For some reason I find myself to be mainly attracted to nice Jewish boys but because I am not Jewish myself they dont seem to take my feelings for them seriously. I have dated several Jewish men but when it comes down to actually having a commitment with them I get the same answer.."...but you're not Jewish." Can you give me any advice as to how I can either get over my attraction to these men or how I could possibly convince them that I am worth the time and effort?

Thank you in advance for any advice you can offer.

Signed,

Trapped In Jewish Love

Now I know you not kidding......because you once told me that you like your men circumcised. So now I know why your always flirting with Bling....hmmmmmmmmmm

though havent been in love so i cant really comment on how i would react.

its overrated anyway.

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