bobadrinker Posted February 7 Report Share Posted February 7 Ok, I met this girl from a couple months back at another girl's b-day. We didn't really hang out till recently, we started hitting the clubs a lot. This past weekend things got hot (literally - the dance floor was stuffy and I was topless) and we kissed. Here's the catch: she has a boyfriend. I knew all this time and she knows I know. Yet there's this attraction/chemistry between us. And from what I can tell she's not too happy with her boyfriend, yet they've been together 4 years! I'm somewhat confused. Is she just keeping me on the side as a play toy or what? Either way I'm taking full advantage of the situation. Just not sure what to do from here on. ANYONE?????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted February 7 Report Share Posted February 7 not to sound like an bitch, but i know from experience that sometimes, it isn't really chemistry that you're feeling, it's just the fact that you know you can't have her, at least right now, that makes her so desireable... you always want what you can't have.... i'm not trying to say you really don't like her, i'm just offering another explanation, cause it's happened to me before...as for her and her boyfriend, there could be plenty of reasons why she's still with him, yet hooking up with you at the club... chances are, if she's unhappy with him, she's just to afraid to live life without him, being she's lived her life with him in it for 4 years... but i could be wrong again... i wouldn't kiss her or do anything else for that matter until she's decided what to do about her boyfriend... it will definitely confuse thing's if you get into it and you might end up getting hurt in the end... just my 2 cents... hope something i said in my essay helps you out a bit...~mOONsHINE ------------------we are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams... wILLY wONKA~the secret of being a bore is to tell everything ~vOLTAIRE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobadrinker Posted February 7 Author Report Share Posted February 7 Thanks Moony. Definitely shun some light to the subject and brought my attention to some things. I'll be out of town for a couple weeks. Hopefully that'll alleviate things a lil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted February 8 Report Share Posted February 8 cool... i hope everything works out the way you want it.... keep me posted on the situation.. i'll be curious to see how she handles herself...------------------we are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams... wILLY wONKA~the secret of being a bore is to tell everything ~vOLTAIRE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 werd, djmoonshine. i would be very hesitant to start anything with someone who has had a long term relationship recently. they may still have yet to learn how to be by themselves------------------"real fucking high" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 Originally posted by deanna11:"werd, djmoonshine.... they may still have yet to learn how to be by themselves"couldn't have put it better myself deanna... ------------------we are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams... wILLY wONKA~the secret of being a bore is to tell everything ~vOLTAIRE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 watch your step cuz do u know her boyfriend? some b-friends will flip if u even look at their girl...so hopefully a fist fight doesn't break out. yo, whatever happens happens...see what's up between her and her boyfriend and get to know her more before u bust another move. ------------------* starcapone * modus operandi * athenalust@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobadrinker Posted February 9 Author Report Share Posted February 9 Funny thing is, I met both the girl and guy at the same time. She has a wild side, especially at clubs. And her bf know and disapproves, but somehow he's not doing much about it (or he can't??) I think I'll have to play the patience game with this one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trikki Posted February 10 Report Share Posted February 10 Moon, you are so right.------------------Live life to the fullest, because you never know when it will be your last!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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