starcapone Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 i've done this but with my girlfriends and it really ruins the friendship afterwards...just curious to what u guys think ------------------ * gonna make, gonna make your body wet..gonna make, gonna make your body scream my name.. * Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueguy808 Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 OK...this happened to me twice. Once with a really good friend and once with a girl that was just a friend/clubbing buddy. The good friend and I got really drunk one night and couldn't resist. Mind you this is after about 6 years of flirting, and teasing each other. We both wanted it so bad. Could've been the start of one of the greatest relationships either of us will have ever had. Turned out to be some of the worst sex in my life. And not just because I was drunk, but because she turned out to be the most "vanilla" person in bed. We both agreed that it was a bad idea, and we should never do it again. yadda yadda yadda Flash forward 4 more years...We're the best of friends. I feel that this attempt at sexual relations forged a foundation that will never be shook. We now know that that was not the thing for us. The other girl just turned into a fuck buddy. If we were out and hadn't hooked up with anyone, we'd go home together. She fell out of my life, but not due to the sex. Anyway...just a couple of tales on the subj.------------------ Peace,-=808=- .:J:.LETS GO METS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted April 16 Author Report Share Posted April 16 what do u mean by "vanilla" person...not freaky enough ------------------ * gonna make, gonna make your body wet..gonna make, gonna make your body scream my name.. * Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueguy808 Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 Originally posted by starcapone:what do u mean by "vanilla" person...not freaky enough Specifically, I mean that she wouldn't go for anything more than missionary and oral. I like to switch things up in bed. At least doggie style or her on top at some point. And by vanilla i mean bland.------------------ Peace,-=808=- .:J:.LETS GO METS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted April 16 Author Report Share Posted April 16 oh i see...good thing i'm not like that ------------------ * ...baby they can't play you cause i'll save you with my super powers...boy i'm only human but i'll be your super woman... * Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueguy808 Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 Yeah, I'm pretty certain that it was the worst sex since my first time, which of course wasn't too bad at all because it was the first time.------------------ Peace,-=808=- .:J:.LETS GO METS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 The moral of thestories is that there are no rules in life.There are rules if you want to play things safe - in which case don'thave sex with friends.But when you play by the rules youdeny yourself the sex and all sorts of other unique and exotic type friendships / relationships with people.But if you don'tplay it safe its dangerous.. So know the person, tryto stay reaql and open and honest, make your best call, don'tbe afraid to change your mind or back-out if you feel you misjudged and sufferthe consequences like an adult. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmb1975 Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 Originally posted by mrdick:The moral of thestories is that there are no rules in life.There are rules if you want to play things safe - in which case don'thave sex with friends.But when you play by the rules youdeny yourself the sex and all sorts of other unique and exotic type friendships / relationships with people.But if you don'tplay it safe its dangerous.. So know the person, tryto stay reaql and open and honest, make your best call, don'tbe afraid to change your mind or back-out if you feel you misjudged and sufferthe consequences like an adult.Amen!------------------ The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torontotrance Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 So true, Mr.Dick. I would not have sex with a friend. ------------------"No Sound System Is Safe"-Leftfield Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 This is a touchy subject:Like Mr. Dick said, there are no rules...but there is always ONE FACT:Having sex with a friend WILL CHANGE things. It can never be the exact same thing, plus sex.Feelings are always involved, and most always, the girl wants the guy to commit to a serious relationship, when all the guy wanted was a good fuck from a girl he'd been fantasizing about for a while.Sad =(------------------ Power is nothing without control Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Xfactor,That stereotype - while still somewhat true, is less prevalent than before. I also know manygirls that just wanted a fuck and the guy acted like their new BF. Works both ways now - though still somewhat more the way you said.And you are right sex does change things 99% of the time. Though of course giventhat there areexceptions to every rule. Sometimes it doesn't. Life is chaos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mugwump Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Ive had "bed buddies" that where only into sex if we couldn't get seriouse with any one else..I think greeeaat friends scratch each others itches no matter what and ask nothing else in return..Perhaps I've just been lucky------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morpheus_ Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 instead of bugging myself with rules, i take a different lane.. i don't break rules someone else makes about relationships, i make my own.i have slept with a friend, i have turned down another one because of circumstantial problems. when it's just sex, no romance, there are always much easier choices if you can control your urges for two minutes.. leaving things to your best judgement is always smarter than following some fuckwit's rule just because he fucked his best friend and it didn't work out..bahwho's to tell me how, when, why or whether to fuck whomever i please besides the other person morph_the_sexanarchist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ufostylee Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 ok, my ex and i, broke up about 2 years ago, but remained friends. just recently, we were chillin, and it happened right on the front seat of her car. and were better friends, but nothing more. in conclusion, i will say that friends can have sex. but only if you know for a fact that it will remain a friendship and nothing more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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