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starcapone

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do u like when a girl plays hard to get or not?? my lovely example:

mark asks mindy "do u want to go out fri. nite?"

mindy "oh my god, like yes for sure!!" cwm13.gif mark asks mandy the same ques.

mandy "i think i have plans this fri., but it's possible"

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Originally posted by starcapone:

do u like when a girl plays hard to get or not?? my lovely example:

mark asks mindy "do u want to go out fri. nite?"

mindy "oh my god, like yes for sure!!" cwm13.gif mark asks mandy the same ques.

mandy "i think i have plans this fri., but it's possible"

guys are (generally) straightforward. when we ask "do u want to go out fri. nite?" we mean "do u want to go out fri. nite?" and we expect "yes" to mean "yes" and "no" to mean "no."

hard to get should only be used as a tease when all parties are sure you are gonna give it up anyway. i think that applies to guys as well as girls. the thrill of the hunt is terrific, and it should be savored. but you can prolong the thrill without saying something like "maybe" when you mean "yes."

if mindy uses that second line she better not be surprised to find herself saying "oh mark is such a loser, hes out banging some local bar slut this weekend after he asked me out." maybe mark didnt want to wind up banging the local bar slut. maybe he would have prefered to romance the lovely mindy for some long term relationship. but if mindy's silly game sends mark down the path of least resistance, who can really blame him?

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