glowgirl Posted May 7 Report Share Posted May 7 Just want to know what your views are on the subject of swapping!------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Swapping? As in swapping partners? ------------------ Don't fly too high on borrowed wings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 I'm all for it but obviously you and your partner must be the right type of people.I also think that 9 times out of 10 you should be at the same "event" as your partner and usually, but not always, in the same room. That way even the sex with other partners is still a shared sexual experience.I think "open relationships" whereeach parner is free to see other people at separate events and times is a recipe for disaster. Some people can make that work but far fewer than can swing successfully and there aren't that many people cut out to be swingers to begin with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torontotrance Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 I'm not sure if I would swap, I don't feel comfortable with that.------------------"No Sound System Is Safe"-Leftfield Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dede Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 I think swinging would be something that is established very early in the relationship. I couldn't see having a committment to someone and caring alot about them, then trying to integrate this lifestyle later on in the relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 The 2 golden rules:1. Be 100% honest with what you want.2. Respect everyones limitations.Trust me, just look at the signature. ------------------Available for play, but not for stay.New Mix CD available "5 HTP"DJmikeDR@aol.com aim: DJmikeDR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by torontotrance:I'm not sure if I would swap, I don't feel comfortable with that.i do i do ...I've done it------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torontotrance Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Phoenix, since you have done the swapping thing would you recommend it?, which kind of people should swap and which kinda people should not. ------------------"No Sound System Is Safe"-Leftfield Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics- Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by torontotrance:Phoenix, since you have done the swapping thing would you recommend it?, which kind of people should swap and which kinda people should not. I wouldn't advise swapping with freinds, make it people you don't know on a day to day bassis and maybe get together just for the swapping.------------------I want to go out blazing..not fade away.Trust in the currency of relationships, it's hard to earn but easy to loose - back2basics Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dale77 Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 I'm a one guy/one girl kind of chick. I would have a threesome but I think that's asking for trouble too.------------------You're only young once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woodycat Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Definatly asking for trouble...you bring shit into your bedroom, you get shit out of your bedroom... I am keeping my man to myself!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddessoflove Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by woodycat:Definatly asking for trouble...you bring shit into your bedroom, you get shit out of your bedroom... I am keeping my man to myself!!! Agreed. I think we'd all like to be able to randomly boink whomever we choose, but committing is about just being with each other. I think I'd only swap or threesome if I was with a guy I knew I wouldn't be with forever. Side-note: That's why I finally got to have a 3-some one time with my ex and his best friend (both hotties --- meow!). I knew he was only temporary so i knew I could enjoy it and not have to live with it forever.XO,G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Before I started w/ my bf, we were very good friends and the idea had crossed my mind. I've had opportunities to participate in swapping and 3somes but I wasn't attracted to these people on any level. I had always said to myself that if I found a woman that I was sexually attracted to,or another willing couple, I would ask him to join.Now that we're together it's a WHOLE different story! I can't picture inviting another person into our bed. I'm too possesive when it comes to this. Go figure!I agree w/ Woodycat, def asking for trouble.------------------ People come into your life for reasons not yet known, keep your mind, heart and soul open.AIM: Xxlea77 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted May 8 Author Report Share Posted May 8 Thanks for all of your views and i do believe in one on one!And I forgot who said it but(sorry) if i knew this relationship wasnt going to last then whatever! ------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 bad------------------ transcend 1. To pass beyond the limits of2. To be greater than, as in intensity or power; surpass3. To exist above and independent of (material experience or the universe) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 Wow. Good experiences here.------------------Available for play, but not for stay.New Mix CD available "5 HTP"DJmikeDR@aol.com aim: DJmikeDR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 I could probably do it every now and then, but my boyfriend would NEVER agree to me sleeping with another guy. And I sure as hell wouldn't try to convince him either! Maybe if it was a lesbian couple???------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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