Bachelor parties....

[clubkat]

omg so true!

so i feel as though i dont even want to show to my uncle in law's wedding...... I dont know it would be like praising a hypocrite....(he also had an "afterparty with one of the strippers")

I mean that is cheating right??? I know it is.....

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[echostar]

Originally posted by clubkat:

I mean that is cheating right??? I know it is.....

of course its cheating! just because its a stripper sucking his dick it isnt any different from some random girl. just because shes getting paid doesnt change anything

i agree about the praising a hypocrite thing because yeah it doesnt make any sense to do that before you promise to be with someone for the rest of youre life

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[djmoonshine]

definitely cheating... i mean maybe im naive but watching stripers and getting lap dances is one thing, but getting your dick sucked is another story... i mean is that the norm and we just don't know about it??? either way, whether it's something that happens a lot, it's still wrong and pretty fucking nasty... i mean i'd feel like crap if i found out some random chick was sucking on my husbands cock right before we got married...

anyway he told me that the strippers his uncle ordered didnt show so they had to find some other girls.....

and where were the other girls from that they found?? were they strippers too or just some random hoes off the street??

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[petp]

of course its cheating!!!

as for that being the norm at bachelor parties, most likely not. i went to a bachelor party 3 weeks ago and they had 2 dancers there and all they did was give lapdances to the guys there.

it really depends on the guy i think. if theyre lowlives then of course they will screwing around. to me thats a bad sign for the marriage ahead, if he's doing this right before he gets amrried, imagine what he'll be like 5 years from now!!!! (if the marriage last that long)

and as for your bf attending this party...how do know if he didnt do anything?!??!

[djstripe]

Originally posted by petp:

and as for your bf attending this party...how do know if he didnt do anything?!??!

don't be trying to interject insecurities into her relationship ..... poor taste

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[echostar]

Originally posted by petp:

and as for your bf attending this party...how do know if he didnt do anything?!??!

trust hopefully, but i dont want to speak on her behalf

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[petp]

Originally posted by djstripe:

don't be trying to interject insecurities into her relationship ..... poor taste

not trying to start any drama, just asking an obvious question.

[tastyt]

Originally posted by djstripe:

don't be trying to interject insecurities into her relationship ..... poor taste

I agree...

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[tastyt]

Oh yeah, an answer to your question...

It's CHEATING!!!

Funny, I just answered a similar question in another forum... I think when you tell someone that the two of you will be married... the commitment doesn't start with the marriage ceremony, it starts as soon as the promise is made.

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[sirdante]

uummm... ladies.... ummmm.... the question "what goes on at bachelor parties" shouldnt be asked... if we wanted u 2 know, we would... ummm... invite u. lol.

seriously: the whole point of these parties is that they are for guys to have fun just being guys. if some dope does things that are immoral or wrong, thats their own problem (and not their nephew's girlfriend's internet friends). if some weak willed simpleton does something that would break his future wife's heart, then its not the fault of the party or the other guys, its fault of the bride for marrying such a fool, IMO.

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[tastyt]

Originally posted by sirdante:

if some weak willed simpleton does something that would break his future wife's heart, then its not the fault of the party or the other guys, its fault of the bride for marrying such a fool, IMO.

Ok I don't know you well enough to tell... but I really hope you're being sarcastic...

If someone goes out and cheats.... it's no one's fault but their own damn self. What you said is analagous to a man telling his wife he hit her... because, ex., she *looked* at another man.

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[sirdante]

Originally posted by tastyt:

If someone goes out and cheats.... it's no one's fault but their own damn self. What you said is analagous to a man telling his wife he hit her... because, ex., she *looked* at another man.

in no way did i mean to suggest that the guy is off the hook bc his bride is as big a fool as him. nor do i suggest that cheating is the fault of the one who got cheated on. however, we were talking very specifically about bachelor parties and if its ok to get head from a hooker as long as its at a bachelor party. what i meant is that no its not OK and anyone who excuses such behavior, or blames the event rather than the cheater, is a real dummy.

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[clubkat]

Ok for 1:

and as for your bf attending this party...how do know if he didnt do anything?!??!

i really did think about that question too (it is kind of obvious) but ill tell you now that TRUST is a bitch to live with.

I will not pretend to know whether or not he did as his uncle did...but I do trust him. WHY WOULD HE TELL ME ALL ABOUT IT ANYWAY???

secondly:

seriously: the whole point of these parties is that they are for guys to have fun just being guys. if some dope does things that are immoral or wrong, thats their own problem (and not their nephew's girlfriend's internet friends).

well OBVIOUSLY i know its not my prob. and im also not making it any of yours. OPINIONS OPINIONS OPINIONS. I really could car less how the rest of his life will turn out.....what I do care about is being a hypocrite. I guess my whole thing is whether or not it runs in the genes

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[clubkat]

Ok so I understand its technically the "last night for a man to be free" or something or other......

Well this Sat. the bf told me he was going to his uncle's bachelor party (mind you im always cool when he goes to strip clubs and stuff )

Well anyway this morning he called me up and told me about the whole thing (i was half asleep) anyway he told me that the strippers his uncle ordered didnt show so they had to find some other girls.....Now, he tells me that these girls were actually giving head to his uncle and company and also one was "getting eaten?" by his uncle. (at this point i was wide awake)

so now....my total definition for bachelor parties has gotten a little fuzzy

can someone please explain to me if this is the norm???????

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[echostar]

sorry i cant answer your question cuz i dont know

but all i know is i think id have a problem if i was getting head a few days before i get married...going to a strip club is one thing but i dont think thats right just to be "free"

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[tonyv]

Originally posted by tastyt:

Oh yeah, an answer to your question...

It's CHEATING!!!

Funny, I just answered a similar question in another forum... I think when you tell someone that the two of you will be married... the commitment doesn't start with the marriage ceremony, it starts as soon as the promise is made.

It's not cheating! Don't you remenber Bill Clinton said he didn't have sex with Monica. It's only a blowjob not sex.

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[tastyt]

Originally posted by tonyv:

It's not cheating! Don't you remenber Bill Clinton said he didn't have sex with Monica. It's only a blowjob not sex.

[nSyNcBaBy]

in my opinion... when u have a bf/gf, husband/wife or fiancee... WHATEVER- if ur in a committed relationship of any kind with ONE person.... any type of sexually related activity <even kissing someone else who isnt ur committed other> ...is cheating. disagree all u want... but u cant justify anything like that and make excuses for it so that it isnt considered cheating... cuz it is.

also, i dont agree with whoever said that its the future WIFES fault for marrying him... but if she does know about wut went on and still marries him... then she runs the risk of it being her fault if he ever cheats on her again... "if he hurts u once, its his fault... if he hurts u again, its urs"... simply because many people say "once a cheater always a cheater" .. and even though that may not necessarily be tru, u can never be too sure that it WONT happen again... and if she forgives him once, and it happens again... she should be ashamed for takin him back the 1st time... cuz not ending the relationship does nothing but make him think that if he evee cheated again, that shed react the same way.

i was in a relationship and i found out a month into it that my bf was cheating the whole time... and i was retarted and took him back... i found out a SECOND time... and yet again, still took him back... then 3 & 1/2 months into the relationship <of u can even call it that>... i found out that he was fuckin some 15 year old for almost 2 months... i kicked myself in the ass a few times and decided that it was beginning to be my fault for takin him back every time... cuz all it did was give him permission to do it again.

PHEWF!!! sorry so damn long... i couldnt stop!!!

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[bootycallguy]

IN MY HONEST OPINION.. THESE GIRLS ARE NOT STRIPPERS THESE ARE YOUR LOCAL GHETTO HOES. HURTIN FOR SOME DOUGH IF YOU ASK ME. STRIPPERS DANCE AT A STRIPBAR AND DO LAPDANCES AND TEASE A GUY. MOST GIRLS WHO STRIP AT STRIPBARS ARE ABOVE AVERAGE GOODLOOKING GIRLS. GIRLS WHO DO BACHELOR PARTIES HEAR ABOUT THESE PARTIES BY WORD OF MOUTH BY SOME OTHER HOE. MOST OF THESE GIRLS WOULD ATTEND TO MAKE SOME EXTRA CASH! MOST OF THESE GIRLS WHO WORK AT PARTIES LIKE THESE ARE EITHER OVERWEIGHT BUT TIGHT MEANING NICE FACE AND A BIG OL BUTT AND WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR A BUCK LIKE SUCK AS MANY COCKS AS POSSIBLE DOING THE NASTY, THE TRAIN, ETC. USUALLY AT THESE PARTIES THEY HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX SO WATCH OUT.. IF I WERE YOU, YOU SHOULD REALIZE THAT YOUR MAN IS PLAYING YOU AND NOT FOR NOTHING BUT YOU SHOULD GET TESTED. NOT TO PUT YOU DOWN BUT IT'S THE TRUTH. TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE. GIRLS WHO WORK AT BACKELOR PARTIES AND GIRLS WHO WORK OUT IN THE STREET ARE NO DIFFERENT.

I'LL GIVE YOU A WEBSITE AND LET YOU SEE IT FOR YOURSELF.

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[sirdante]

Originally posted by bootycallguy:

IN MY HONEST OPINION.. THESE GIRLS ARE NOT STRIPPERS THESE ARE YOUR LOCAL GHETTO HOES. HURTIN FOR SOME DOUGH IF YOU ASK ME. STRIPPERS DANCE AT A STRIPBAR AND DO LAPDANCES AND TEASE A GUY. MOST GIRLS WHO STRIP AT STRIPBARS ARE ABOVE AVERAGE GOODLOOKING GIRLS. GIRLS WHO DO BACHELOR PARTIES HEAR ABOUT THESE PARTIES BY WORD OF MOUTH BY SOME OTHER HOE. MOST OF THESE GIRLS WOULD ATTEND TO MAKE SOME EXTRA CASH! MOST OF THESE GIRLS WHO WORK AT PARTIES LIKE THESE ARE EITHER OVERWEIGHT BUT TIGHT MEANING NICE FACE AND A BIG OL BUTT AND WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR A BUCK LIKE SUCK AS MANY COCKS AS POSSIBLE DOING THE NASTY, THE TRAIN, ETC. USUALLY AT THESE PARTIES THEY HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX SO WATCH OUT.. IF I WERE YOU, YOU SHOULD REALIZE THAT YOUR MAN IS PLAYING YOU AND NOT FOR NOTHING BUT YOU SHOULD GET TESTED. NOT TO PUT YOU DOWN BUT IT'S THE TRUTH. TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE. GIRLS WHO WORK AT BACKELOR PARTIES AND GIRLS WHO WORK OUT IN THE STREET ARE NO DIFFERENT.

I'LL GIVE YOU A WEBSITE AND LET YOU SEE IT FOR YOURSELF.

you are right, these are technically hookers, not strippers. however, since hiring hookers is illegal, it is common to call the hookers "strippers" to avoid talking openly about someting illegal.

also, there are plenty of regular strippers who do private parties. not everyone who does private parties is a hooker, so its wrong to say "GIRLS WHO WORK AT BACKELOR PARTIES AND GIRLS WHO WORK OUT IN THE STREET ARE NO DIFFERENT."

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[bootycallguy]

Originally posted by sirdante:

also, there are plenty of regular strippers who do private parties. not everyone who does private parties is a hooker, so its wrong to say "GIRLS WHO WORK AT BACKELOR PARTIES AND GIRLS WHO WORK OUT IN THE STREET ARE NO DIFFERENT."

UH HELLO, WHAT DO BOTH HAVE IN COMMON - THEY BOTH HAVE SEX FOR MONEY.

YOU GOT YOUR CRACK WHORES THAT WOULD FUCK ANYTHING FOR $10

YOU GOT YOUR STREET WHORES WHO FUCK FOR $50

NO DIFFERENT FROM A CRACK WHORE AND YES THESE GIRLS ALSO WORK AT THESE BACHELOR PARTIES

THEN YOU GOT SOPHISTICATED GIRLS THAT FUCK FOR $100 OR MORE FOR A FUCK

THEN YOU GOT EXCLUSIVE GIRLS, LIKE MODELS, ACTRESSES, PORNSTARS THAT CHARGE $1,000 FOR A FUCK

DAMN SOME GUYS THINK THAT SINCE SOPHISTICATED GIRLS CHARGE MORE THAT I HAVE NO RIGHT TO CALL THEM HOES. PUH - LEASE

GETTING PAID FOR SEX = HOE NO MATTER WHAT THEY CHARGE FROM YOUR $10 CRACKWHORE TO YOUR EXCLUSIVE GIRLS OR CALL GIRLS WHO CHARGE $1,1000

[tastyt]

Bootycallguy- the point you missed in Sirdante's post is that not ALL women who work at bachelor parties should be called hookers because they're not ALL having sex w/the men.

It's pretty obvious that, regardless of how much she costs, how good she looks, or how clean she is... if she's paid for... she's a whore.

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