Chelle31 Posted July 11 Report Share Posted July 11 hey guys, i dont post much here on cp, but i figured since so many of u seem to have some good advice for each other i wanted to get ur opinions on something. so heres my situation: ive been seeing this one guy i met away at school and he lives in the city, so hes close by. we both said that we werent looking for a serious thing rite b4 the summer, but things just started going well with us. but now hes away for a month and we kinda left things alone and didnt talk about it, other than him asking me if he thinks its possible to hook up with people while hes away when he really wants to be with me, and i was like, yea, thats possible. in the meantime, theres been stuff happening with my best friend too... like, we've always been really close, but things have been different ever since he told me he wants to be more than friends. and i can really see myself with him on a long-term basis too, but im just worried that its gonna be hard to deal with right now, especially with us both going back to school in the fall. by the way, he doesnt know about the other guy. i really dont wanna hurt anyone, but i dont wanna lose my best friend either. i really do love him, i just dont know if im ready to be with him rite now. has any1 here ever dated a close friend? and if i explain to him how i dont know if im ready for this, how do u think he'll take it? also, should i mention anything about the other guy from school? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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