Prerequisites For Love ?

[shiraz]

What are the pre requisites for an encounter with a random ?

1)What is it about your partner(s) that motivates you to spend the night with them ?

2)What is it about him/her that first attracts you ?

3)What part did clothing play ?

4)How much weight did an attractive a) body face have ?

5)What role did the attitude play ?

6)What attitude attracted you towards them ?

7)What sort of an environment do you find most conducive to a seduction ?

8)What sort of an ambiance makes you receptive to seduction ?

9)If you are passive what would motivate you to become more aggressive in seducing people? If you are aggressive do you always want to be aggressive ? If yes what would allow you to accept seduction ?

10)What are the traits of the people you perceive to be

a) successful as seducers (would you yield to them?)

successful as sirens (would you seduce them)

Dont forget to state your gender, your ethnicity, your income, your age and anything else that will help us all get a better picture of you.

[shiraz]

I will start :

Answer 1) I am motivated by people who want to share their love. It sounds vague but it is necessary that the other person has actually got love to offer (some people do it to prove somethings or to act out against other things) such people do not inspire me.

Answer 2) This might sound odd but I am attracted to women who look older - who carry themselves with elegance , exuding power. My current favorite is the silver hair (or silver streaks). I like women who look like college professors, silver haired, mature, intelligent, kind and with deep warm voices.

Answer 3) In my case : clothing is important. The right slit in the right place drives me insane with passion.

Answer 4) Body type I am attracted to : well toned (not too thin) again the body type of middle aged women who keep themselves in shape.

Face : softened features, the right eye glasses make me want to begin by take them off first.

Answer 5) On a scale of 1 - 10 attitude was 9.

Answer 6) I personally prefer an attitude that says :I know what I want and I want you. I like eagerness. I like passion.

Answer 7) A comfortable couch, MINUS music that gives you a migraine, MINUS the smoke. Comfortable is the key word here.

Answer 8) This might lead into a personal fantasy. But I am receptive to seduction in plush environments : opera house ambiance (large scale, velvet, glitter, deep rich colors)

Answer 9) I am passive and only a VERY clear request from my partner would motivate me to be aggressive. My initial reaction to un invited seducers was nervousness and hostility - but I learned from a woman who said "I am flattered by your interest and it is very chivalrous of you, but ... " after heraing those words from a stranger nothing else mattered.

Answer 10)

a) I think successful seducers are thoughtful and have a deep psychological understanding.

my sirens have expressed unequivocal desire, absolute approval and laughter.