hottienotte Posted November 23 Report Share Posted November 23 This is just a little question for the ladies...why aren't there more outgoing and fun-loving ladies out there? Why don't you change it up a little and give the guys a surprise and go up to them instead of sticking with all your friends and looking around...any comments or answers.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiraz Posted November 23 Report Share Posted November 23 The answer lies in words like :"slut" "whore" "easy" "desperate" "ffrustrated".When a girl is afraid of being called any of the above - how do you expect her to make the first move ? (even though she may be dying to do so)The same goes for guys. Priests , puritans and politicians have always used ways of denigrating sexuality by insulting those who want to express their love (so that they people are consequently without love, and ready for war or worship - it makes people more easily controlled). The solution is : if you ever hear one of your friends (or guys) back bite about a woman. If you ever hear someone call another girl "easy" (just because she shared her love and went for what she wanted and knew what she wanted) If you ever hear anyone put aggressive women in a bad light speak out against it. Speak out just like you would speak out against racism or sexism. Speak for the sake of your own love supply and your own future.Encourage and laud and appreciate women who are aggressive and sexual. If you cannot then the least you can do is : be courteous towards them.Thirdly make yourself desirable. Watch to what lengths women go to - in order to attract attention : they keep in shape, they may wear tight revealing clothing, they wear make up. I am not asking you to wear make up (the American male has not evolved that far but French men used to do that all the time and enjoyed a lot of pleasure and happiness). But you can look sexy in tight clothing, you can make yourself irresistable by standing out from the rest of the flannel-wearing crowd. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eltigre01 Posted November 23 Report Share Posted November 23 True indeed!. Just like anything in life it takes a little giving to have a little "gettin". If it has become so popular for men to ask that a woman is more agressive than we should go out of our way to make it easier for women to do so. When we start insulting them for the very thing that we are asking them for, how can you expect more women to act out.I have been lucky enough to see before my own eyes the tranformation of a shy innocent girl into the type of woman almost every man wants....someone you can bring home to momma, someone you would be proud to say is your girl, but also the ultimate freaky chick in the bedroom.We should be applauding these women and not degrading them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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