sosultan Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 What is the general attitude of women on this board regarding a one time bang? Would you consider it with a hottie you meet at a club/lounge/library, or not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 I think I may have left that back at college. I'm too old and responsible now, back then I didn't really consider the consequenses. It's just not safe for many reasons. Whenever I think about one night stands I think about this student at Columbia. Maybe you heard the story. She had an online "relationship" with one of the TAs. They met at some restaurant and he asked her back to his apartment. Once there he tied her up and raped her repeatedly with various objects for many hours. And no this is not just some urban myth.So the idea of going home with a stranger is unappealing to me. Of course, when you're in the middle of a situation you can do some pretty stupid things. So... never say never. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 i really do not have an opinion one way of the other.do whatever makes you happy. just remember to take precautions. you certainly do not want to catch something that you cannot cure... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 one in four people have some form of Herpes(70 million), so hook up at your own risk, and that's reality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinergygrl Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 Not for me thanks. But I do have a BF and he is the only one I have ever been. It is hard to say what I would do if I was with him. I probably wouldn't do it, too many freaks out there, and not the good kind of freaks, ya know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigwill Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 well i'm a male and i really dun mind having sex with strangers ...just good clean fun as long as you got that condom...hahahaha well it is a risk but just go with your instincts... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 If there is something going on( intense connection kinda deal), do what makes you happy. I think eveyone has done their fair share of things that would be better left in the closet........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 Not a big fan of one night stands. for many reasons First one being Diseases you can contract. Second being I just feel really guilty the next day especially if its with a friend than you have that awkwardness for the next couple of days. For 3-4 hours of pleasure its not worth any of those... IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 I once slept with a girl the first night I met her and I can tell you that it was the most irresponsible thing I ever did. I met this girl through some friends, and after a night of drinking, we went back to her friends house and had sex, twice. To make matters worse, I didn't even use a condom. We both woke up the next morning, found condoms in the room, and regretted what we did. I still kick myself in the ass for placing myself in such a risky position, but then there is a plus side to this story. It wound up not being a one night stand. The girl I had sex with that night was a virgin at the time, she got tested afterwards, and she is now my girlfriend. I constantly remind myself that there was always that chance that I would've never seen her again, got her pregnant, contracted some disease, and ruined the rest of my life. It was stupid on both of our parts and we both realize it. Life is full of lessons. This was one of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildangel Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 I used to be pretty crazy like that - if he was hot, why not, right?WRONG. I met this beautiful guy one night at a party, fucked him without a condom (DUMB, DUMB, DUMB!!) and tested positive the next week for chlamydia. Thank GOD I caught it early and that it's one of those diseases that 100% curable, so I'm 100% clean now, but that was the worst mistake of my entire life. Sucking down two watermelon-sized pills three times a day is NOT fun.That experience was enough to scare the shit out of me, and I stopped having one night stands after that. They're just not worth it for me, especially without protection (I still can't believe I did that, I was one naive 18 year old!). From that point on, I only slept with people who I cared about/was in a relationship with.If you can handle it, have fun! Just BE SAFE, because you never know what the other person might have (and you DON'T want to learn the hard way!!!). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diana Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 I can't say that it would never happen , but it hasn't yet in my 25 years on this planet and I now have a boyfriend so it would be hard to say....I guess it would depend............sometimes there is just a certain chemistry with you and another person that you just have to give into temptation... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 A few years back I was VERY, VERY close to having a one night stand w/ a guy. He was a friend of a friend and so on. Alcohol played a BIG role in lowering my inhibations along with certain issues going on in my life. What held me back was that neither one of us had a condom or a place to get freaky.THANK GOD I didn't go through with, just this week I saw the guy working in my building! While I was waiting for my bf to pick me up, I see him walking out of the building. My stomach turned into knots. Even though we didn't do anything, I felt very embarrassed and HAPPY that I've matured from that period of my life.Now I have to bump into him in the lobby, uugghh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bionic Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 When I was younger, I used to have em a lot. Now that I'm older, its not worth the headache. I don't need to put myself at risk of disease for a piece of ass. Not to mention if she stays over, the akward feeling the next morning when she's laying next to you and you're wishing she wasn't and start thinking I would give anything to be able to click my heels 3x and turn her into a bacon egg and cheese on a roll Don't let me kid you, all the one nighters were fun but now a days its about quality, not quantity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted August 18 Report Share Posted August 18 Both happy and sad to say I have had only 1-One Night Stand... I have never felt the urge to Fuck Someone only Once.... I gues I'm too much into the ALL or NONE rule.... Give it to me ALL the time or NONE at all... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted August 18 Report Share Posted August 18 but it's so nice to read the responses posted in this thread... ok... enough of this mommy crap never had a one night stand, but came very close to it... met this beautiful guy, we were hanging out, and let's just say he was very persistant about having sex... thank god i had the sense to turn him down... like everyone has said, you just do not know what people have these days...how easy it would be if things were like they are in those commercials where people wear signs for what std they have, or if everyone who had herpes wore a huge neon sign on their shirt saying it... happy sexing everyone, but stay safe!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sosultan Posted August 20 Author Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn I once slept with a girl the first night I met her and I can tell you that it was the most irresponsible thing I ever did. I met this girl through some friends, and after a night of drinking, we went back to her friends house and had sex, twice. To make matters worse, I didn't even use a condom. We both woke up the next morning, found condoms in the room, and regretted what we did. I still kick myself in the ass for placing myself in such a risky position, but then there is a plus side to this story. It wound up not being a one night stand. The girl I had sex with that night was a virgin at the time, she got tested afterwards, and she is now my girlfriend. This virgin-babe gave it up to you just a few hours after she met you? Either you got some mad skills or she was mad ripe and really felt the itch that night... Just how old was this doll anyway? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by bionic ......start thinking I would give anything to be able to click my heels 3x and turn her into a bacon egg and cheese on a roll That's gotta be one of the best lines I read on the sex board in a while:laugh: :laugh: It's nice to see that most of the guys who answered aren't a bunch of pigs....I know there are girls who are pigs too, it goes both ways. But a lot guys wanna see how many notches they can put in their bed post........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 It's nice to see that most of the guys who answered aren't a bunch of pigs....I know there are girls who are pigs too, it goes both ways. But a lot guys wanna see how many notches they can put in their bed post........ i know!! i felt the same way... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by sosultan This virgin-babe gave it up to you just a few hours after she met you? Either you got some mad skills or she was mad ripe and really felt the itch that night... Just how old was this doll anyway? She's 23. I know what you're saying. There's no way in hell she was a virgin at that age and gave it up to me in one night. It had a lot to do with her past and how she felt comfortable with me the minute she met me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 She's still your girlfriend, right? That's cool. Love happens in strange ways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cgm Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If there is something going on( intense connection kinda deal), do what makes you happy. I think eveyone has done their fair share of things that would be better left in the closet........ I agree with you-yes it has its risks, but............ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 none, worth taking though. I regret greatly the times I did... damn liquor... fucks up your thought process, who wouldve thought??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 Originally posted by dgmodel damn liquor... fucks up your thought process, who wouldve thought??? Thought what??????? :confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 I was being sarcastic, Meaning Who wouldve thought that liquor impairs your judgement... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 Originally posted by dgmodel I was being sarcastic, Meaning Who wouldve thought that liquor impairs your judgement... It's okay, I was being sarcastic TOO. I DO agree with you..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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