LavenderMenace Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Do you think its wrong or hurtful when people who have relationships and friendships with other people on the board post about their personal lives in the abstract (or not so abstract). Doesn't this just create drama? Then again, this is an open forum in the most fundamental sense of the word. So, is there even a line to be crossed?what do you think? :confused: :confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 if you met the person through the board then you should already be familiar with their posting style before you start dating them or hanging out with them. if you start seeing someone from the board and they continue to post about past relationships in the abstract, then they are assuming that it won't bother you or they know it will bother you and they don't care. boundaries must be established on an individual basis and it just depends on the nature of the relationship. the boundaries that you establish should help each of you manage your expectations of each other's board behavior. discretion and sensitivity to your friend's or significant other's feelings are important whether on the board or in public or private and if they aren't sensitive to your feelings in one area, then most likely they won't be sensitive/respectful in other areas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 Yes, it can be hurtful. However unless you have had a conversation with the person expressing your views, you cannot expect them to read your mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LavenderMenace Posted October 1 Author Report Share Posted October 1 Both good points ladies. Aaaahhh, the infinite wisdom that comes with club godesshood!Well, in the immortal words of Richard Vernon: Don't mess with the bull, You'll get the horns. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted October 1 Report Share Posted October 1 if youre just looking for some advice once in a while, its not a problem. it ios a problem, if you start revealing everything and inviting your partner to the board to discuss (ie mugz and blowflyii), thats just asking for drama Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehacker Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Originally posted by lavendermenace Both good points ladies. Aaaahhh, the infinite wisdom that comes with club godesshood!yeah shuga and stacy are NO JOKE.w0rd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mugwump Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 (ie mugz and blowflyii) HEY..I am now and forever will be the Trueman show of CP!Get with the program people..geeze!And this bloflii character's stealing my gig..I don't think I like him too much anymore..But on a more somber note..I think too many people fall victim of "if the shoe fit's" syndrome.I've seen people post stuff like.."Do you think it's fucked up when people do too much K and gets sick.."then someone else will pop in and be like;"DUDE..I GOT SICK AT A PARTY you where at..your talking about me!"Sometimes topics may hit close to home..but they aren't actually about any one in particular..Just common topics that MANY of us can relate to!(Or feel guilty about in some cases!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crobra Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Mugz - where would this board be with out your threads - I for one don't want a mugz free board and comparing you to blowfii is comparing apples and oranges!!The question I do have is, I thought that lavendermenace is your gf and I was wondering if this thread was a dig to the whole love thread and stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mugwump Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Originally posted by crobra Mugz - where would this board be with out your threads - I for one don't want a mugz free board and comparing you to blowfii is comparing apples and oranges!!The question I do have is, I thought that lavendermenace is your gf and I was wondering if this thread was a dig to the whole love thread and stuff. Holy fucking foot in the mouth CORBRA!She's the coolest chick on the board and I love her dearly..BUT we are just "friends"..I'll just leave it at that The love thread was about my EX...and a personal question to the board in generalon the over all feelings of "love"...*Don't worry..I'm not going anywhere bro..I'm an addict here..lol*! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crobra Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Sorry - I thought she was your new gf and what do you mean by "friends" - is there something - don't leave us in the dark! lolAnyway - I am sorry if I offended either you or her with the comments, I guess I was wrong!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LavenderMenace Posted October 2 Author Report Share Posted October 2 LMFAO Crobra you are fuckin awesome. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loch Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 <<whistling>>::sweeps up spilled beans::<<whistling>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
albyback Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 loch be careful with those beans ... they might serve as evidence one day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loch Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Originally posted by albyback loch be careful with those beans ... they might serve as evidence one day. or served as twice-cooked re-fried beans, with your enchiladas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mugwump Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Unless they are Lentils..spilling lentils is a sign ofof something isn't it..?No ,no wait..that's spilling salt..(or is it getting shit on by a bird?)ah..(shrugs)Originally posted by loch or served as twice-cooked re-fried beans, with your enchiladas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 It all depends on who you're friends with..In general I don't think it matters much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Originally posted by thehacker yeah shuga and stacy are NO JOKE.w0rd that's right! don't mess with Texas! Or Georgia! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Originally posted by shugabooga that's right! don't mess with Texas! Or Georgia! yeah what shuga says...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Originally posted by mugwump HEY..I am now and forever will be the Trueman show of CP!Get with the program people..geeze!And this bloflii character's stealing my gig..I don't think I like him too much anymore..But on a more somber note..I think too many people fall victim of "if the shoe fit's" syndrome.I've seen people post stuff like.."Do you think it's fucked up when people do too much K and gets sick.."then someone else will pop in and be like;"DUDE..I GOT SICK AT A PARTY you where at..your talking about me!"Sometimes topics may hit close to home..but they aren't actually about any one in particular..Just common topics that MANY of us can relate to!(Or feel guilty about in some cases!) i am sorry mugzi do enjoy your posts and threads, but when you brought your ex on the board and started drama, it just seemed like it was a bit muchdont lynch me everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mugwump Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 Originally posted by bigpoppanils i am sorry mugzi do enjoy your posts and threads, but when you brought your ex on the board and started drama, it just seemed like it was a bit muchdont lynch me everyone! awe come on dude..YOU LOVED IT!lol*Actually I'm living with My ex-(for the mean time)and we still chuckle about that little stunt.. :laugh: :laugh: (SBJ is still annoyed though..IF SHE isn't the center of some drama she dosen't like it..much like other people on this board!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 where has she been?i miss sbj soi have some scooby snacks.......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mugwump Posted October 2 Report Share Posted October 2 She's been banned for getting too snooty on CP with me..I took away her doggie I-mack!She's likely to sneak in here eventually..(as long as I'm not in here and away from the computer..which is rare!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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