bodi Posted October 23 Report Share Posted October 23 She had lied about guys she had dated in the past. Although she referred to them as just "friends"? I know the past is the past but if you take someone on their word and then find hard evidence (floppy disk with saved emails) which contradicts what they have said. Do you continue to trust them and take them at their word? Should I let this throw a kink in what has been a really good relationship for the last three months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted October 23 Report Share Posted October 23 it all depends on how big the lie was. but the past should stay in the past. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 23 Report Share Posted October 23 definitely question why she felt she hadda lie about it... cuz if she lied about that then who knows what else she is capable of lying about u know?? dont let that ruin the relationship unless YOU truly feel like u cant trust her. regardless of what any of us think....lying is so stupid... esp about the past so, def find out what thats all about.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted October 23 Report Share Posted October 23 same shit happened to me though: my now bf had asked me if anything had happened b/w me and this guy he knows and i said NO. it was quick, horrible sex that i dont wish to even remember. plus i only knew my bf for a WEEK at that point and didnt feel it was his business. he found out the truth from the guy, and he asked me again about 2 weeks later....at that point i really was into him and couldnt lie again. i hate the fact that i lied to someone i now love, but oh well......im not disclosing shit that isnt his business if it has nothing to do with it and it was complete bullshitso the point of my long-ass post is........ask her again and see if she lies to your face again. hopefully she wont Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodi Posted October 23 Author Report Share Posted October 23 Thank you all for your input! You have definitely shed some light on my little problem here. I will ask her to her face and see if she lies again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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