wildkitty Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 For all the guys out there... My girlfriend and I had a sleep over and we ended up going at it. I felt bad hiding it form my boyfriend so a couple of days later I told him. He totally flipped on me. I didn't understand because he didn' t get mad when we kiss in front of him. Would you consider that cheating? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t0nythelover Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 if its happened onces its cool. put it down to experimentation. if it happens regularly then i would see y he would feel threatened. at this point hes either already a bit insecure with the relationship or hes mad he couldnt watch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XxS87xX Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 I think its cheating, You were being pleasured by another person that wasn't your boyfriend ( guy, girl whatever it doesn't matter)If i was him I probabily would have been mad too. If he was there it might of made it a little easier on him for the fact that he doesnt feel like you cheated or were hiding it or doing it behind his back but that he is a part of it even if watching. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Yes it's cheating. You did it without his knowledge, and were planning on hiding it (until your conscience got the better of you). When you two kiss, it's in front of him so its entirely different. Plus, kissing and going downtown... two different ballparks altogether. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Yes I consider it cheating too. If you look it up in a dictionary it says: cheating = to be sexually unfaithful. It is not bound to the opposite gender and only means that you have been sexually active with another person than the one you are supposed to be with. You say that you don't quite understand as he has no problem when you kiss your girlfriend in front of him. Well, let me expand on that one: would you call it cheating if a couple has a threesome with another guy and the girl at some point just meets the other guy alone and has sex with him (without her boyfriend knowing)????????Well, I would and I think so would you....so I guess that answers that question. Still, hope everything between your boy and you works out girly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sumguy Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Cheating. no question. you should be ashamed of yourself. and if i were your b/f, i'd dump your cheatin' ass. I'd even start spreading nasty rumors about you and all the STD's your infected ass is carrying around....Cheating sucks and people who cheat are assholes! yes, it's happened to me, so i know the feeling... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 I agree, you def. cheated on the poor schmuk. I rather have my girl cheat on me with another guy, to have her have be with another woman is even worse.BTW when you mean messed around, what exactly do you exactly mean cause everyone got their own definition.( No offense to any girls on this board, who partake in the pleasures of being with other women) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildkitty Posted December 7 Author Report Share Posted December 7 I wan't going to hide it from him for ever or even for a long period of a time. I wanted to tell him at a good time. I do feel bad that it bothered him. We are Okay now we've been togeter for 6 yrs. he told me I do have to make it up to him though by him watching the whole act.rdancer- why would you rather your g/f cheat with a guy there is a whole lot more involved.. intercours. You can't officialy do that with a girl. And I am not into the ways you can. and to your question what did we do everythin but intercourse.sumguy- I could see if I had a habbit of cheating someone would take it to the point of your way. You must of been really hurt to have so much aggression. I am not a bad person it was just experimented. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Well, I guess I made an ASSumption without knowing all the facts. I didnt know you and this guy were together for that long, grats on that, and im glad everything is ok between the two of you. This guy seems like a HYpocrit. (SPelling might be off) He gets mad you did the nasty deed with this other girl, and to make it up he gets to watch. In my opinion thats idiotic he is just encouraging you to get nasty with this girl. Dont get me wrong its a nice site to see, im a guy I cant lie about that , but with a girl I have been going with for 6 years, you guys are like practically married.. JeeZus. ( He has nothing to do with it). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Kitty...I'm really happy for you that he took it (in the end) that well....enjoy while he's having fun watching Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Originally posted by rdancer This guy seems like a HYpocrit. (SPelling might be off) He gets mad you did the nasty deed with this other girl, and to make it up he gets to watch. In my opinion thats idiotic he is just encouraging you to get nasty with this girl. ( He has nothing to do with it). lollol...well, that's what I was thinking too but I didn't want (again) to put too much of my straightlined views on the subject onto other people....oh well, rdance transformed my thoughts into words though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildkitty Posted December 7 Author Report Share Posted December 7 Thank you guys for your opinions. I can't ask my friends because they know the both of us so their thoughts are giong to be delicate to spare feeling. You guys are really cool thanks again. Oh and I will enjoy under his approval. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vision Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Originally posted by wildkitty For all the guys out there... My girlfriend and I had a sleep over and we ended up going at it. I felt bad hiding it form my boyfriend so a couple of days later I told him. He totally flipped on me. I didn't understand because he didn' t get mad when we kiss in front of him. Would you consider that cheating? i don't know if its cheating or notwhat i do know is i'm pitchin a tent right now with this girl on girl stuff i'm readin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildkitty Posted December 7 Author Report Share Posted December 7 What kind of girl stuff? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XxS87xX Posted December 7 Report Share Posted December 7 Originally posted by sumguy Cheating. no question. you should be ashamed of yourself. and if i were your b/f, i'd dump your cheatin' ass. I'd even start spreading nasty rumors about you and all the STD's your infected ass is carrying around....Cheating sucks and people who cheat are assholes! yes, it's happened to me, so i know the feeling... Ouch a lil harsh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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