SPYGIRL3 Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 So I have a question, if a girl or guy is not a "hottie" or super attractive or what have you, but people start telling him or her that they are handsome, pretty, cute, etc. etc. etc...... Do you think that the person will eventually become that??? Does it become mind over matter..... I always say image is a state of mind, but what makes the image??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 you're a dork.... I dont like you... and u know why Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 8 Author Report Share Posted December 8 Originally posted by gabo you're a dork.... I dont like you... and u know why You didn't answer the question........Don't yell at me!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeygk Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 So I have a question, if a girl or guy is not a "hottie" or super attractive or what have you, but people start telling him or her that they are handsome, pretty, cute, etc. etc. etc...... Do you think that the person will eventually become that??? Does it become mind over matter..... I always say image is a state of mind, but what makes the image??? I think you're right.....looking good is 50% what you got, 25% what people think you got, and 25% is simply good grooming. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
q-ny Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 HE DIDN'T YELL.....THIS IS YELLING Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 So I have a question, if a girl or guy is not a "hottie" or super attractive or what have you, but people start telling him or her that they are handsome, pretty, cute, etc. etc. etc...... Do you think that the person will eventually become that??? Does it become mind over matter..... I always say image is a state of mind, but what makes the image??? Well, it can happen. I mean the more you get to know a person, there may develop a chemistry between the two of you. I thinkit all depends., sometiems looks may not be as relevant as they were in the beginning. Um I don't know if I answered the question, maybe I kind of don't understand what exactly your trying to ask:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Clothes/Hair/Grooming can really lessen the damge...You can take someone whos average and make them pretty attractive, or incredebly greusome... just depending on those factors....Hense the old saying "clothes make the man" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 You didn't answer the question........Don't yell at me!!!!!!! Ill yell if I want to!! And u let me down so u MUST be punished!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nurdee Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 I think that the fact that the guy/girl is hearin it all the time will make them more confident/making them feel better bout themselves/having them take better care of themselves, and yes ultimately becoming that "hottie" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 9 Author Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by gabo Ill yell if I want to!! And u let me down so u MUST be punished!! Get over it........... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 9 Author Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by nurdee I think that the fact that the guy/girl is hearin it all the time will make them more confident/making them feel better bout themselves/having them take better care of themselves, and yes ultimately becoming that "hottie" That's kinda what I was thinking......If you think you are something, than you eventually"beome" that something....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 So I have a question, if a girl or guy is not a "hottie" or super attractive or what have you, but people start telling him or her that they are handsome, pretty, cute, etc. etc. etc...... Do you think that the person will eventually become that??? Does it become mind over matter..... I always say image is a state of mind, but what makes the image??? Perception... Its like when youre seeing someone and your friends are like eeeew wtf? that person is blah blah blah (fill in the blanks) and then you start to notice lil things and days later its over... same concept just reveresed IMO... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 That's kinda what I was thinking......If you think you are something, than you eventually"beome" that something....... see but i dunno... like when i see a beautiful girl who knows shes beautiful and just has that look about her, then i automatically see her uglier... same for guys... conceited boys, no matter how beautiful, how impecably dressed, always look gross to me... maybe its just me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 I used to be conceited now im perfect... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 just kidding... seriously though.. nothing worse then a conceited guy or girl, kills everything for me... and ppl who have popularity complexes, like have to be center of attn. all the time, and always getting fon calls, and beeps, and cant stop shit for a min... eeew... pisses me off and turns me off, soooo bad... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by dgmodel just kidding... seriously though.. nothing worse then a conceited guy or girl, kills everything for me... and ppl who have popularity complexes, like have to be center of attn. all the time, and always getting fon calls, and beeps, and cant stop shit for a min... eeew... pisses me off and turns me off, soooo bad... u know what pisses me off......seeing ur name at the end of every single thread on this board!! LOL....j/k....actuallly it turns me on! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 huh??? whatcha ya talkin bout willis??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Get over it........... I am gonna kick the crap out of you!! who wants to watch?? or place bets Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 if you even think about harming her..."I VILL BREK U"<said in russian accent, like that guy drago from rockIV> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 I think confidence is the other major factor aside from psyical looks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by dgmodel if you even think about harming her..."I VILL BREK U"<said in russian accent, like that guy drago from rockIV> I am just gonna have me a little cat fight with Spygirl:tongue: (there are you happy!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 nopes... thats my bebe... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by dgmodel nopes... thats my bebe... But she is mine more, remember I claimed her!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 9 Author Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by gabo you little fucking bitch!! I am gonna kick the crap out of you!! who wants to watch?? Don't you know it's not wise to make threats on a public message board:rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 9 Author Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by dgmodel nopes... thats my bebe... Thanx DG..... He just thinks he can hurt me..... :laugh2:I do agree, confidence is part of it, but that's all part of the build up. LIke if you have a guy who isn't to muscular, to tall, and is okay looking....YOu start telling him this and that, yes, it builds his confidence, but he's still not gonna be taller or muscular....Make sense??? I think I just made this look really shallow, which isn't what I was trying to do..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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