georgym Posted January 2 Report Share Posted January 2 I'm tired of hookups, of one-time run-ins. Does anyone else feel this?Maybe i'm still struggling from a recent breakup, but lately it seems that more and more this life is turning out to be just superficial airfluff.It's like when you get a hug from someone, but it feels like they're doing it as a chore. Or even the people who kiss me hello. I know it's polite and considerate, but for some reason it feels flat. Don't get me wrong, i LOVE hugs. I just feel that i want to find a stronger, closer bond with people in my life. Now how do i do that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 2 Report Share Posted January 2 I can totally understand...at times, I feel that I am ready for a long term relationship..but right now, my life seems to be filled with only guys that pop in and out of my life...for instance, last night I was with someone for New Year's...but I have no intention of seeing him again. I guess it's a matter of fate...when the right person for you is meant to enter your life at a certain time, they will. Until then, don't feel empty, fill your life with things to do and to keep yourself occupied...and distracted from your situation. Believe me, it works...although I can't vouch for those odd nights when you wish you had a strong pair of arms around you...or, in your case, your arms around a soft warm body.Just keep going...that's life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 2 Author Report Share Posted January 2 Thanks, SaSs... btw, i LOVE that monkey for your avatar, i just realized the bubbliness around his head I'm trying to fill myself. But i'm one of those people that loves to sample, be everywhere at once. The thing i liked about my ex was that she pondered things a lot. I loved to be in deep discussion with someone who truly saw things at a medium pace.I think i'm gonna start reading more. I just got Doors of Perception by Huxley, and looking into some early Greek Writings as well. Music's always been there to save my life. It always seems to readjust me into the right mood. And another thing is Yoga. The breathing, holding of a stretch, expanding of the mind to reach far beyond comprehension is my kind of fun ::keep your head up:: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 2 Report Share Posted January 2 Hey I totally feel ya.... I'm soooo sick of hookups. Worse, I'm sick of guys leading me on like it's gonna be more then replacing me and acting cold two weeks later. NO MORE!!!! STOP!!!! But, as Graham Greene said... (of course totally out of context)"For men may come and men may go, but I go on forever." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted January 2 Report Share Posted January 2 Same here, at the beggining its fun nad you kinda look fwd to them , but after a while it gets old.I think that at the satrt of this new year, we should all realize that whatever happens to us individually is under our own control and we can everything change for us by taking action on it.Thought I had met someone but realized during this tim eof the year that it just would not work, which kinda sux, since everyone is happy and for a breif period I'm sad, but things like these happen and still I dont get discouraged.While some poeple continue looking fwd. to the hookup scene, I guess thats what they fancy, but it just wont happen with me anymore..oh, well time to get back to work..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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chynado11 Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by gmccookny I'm tired of hookups, of one-time run-ins. Does anyone else feel this?Maybe i'm still struggling from a recent breakup, but lately it seems that more and more this life is turning out to be just superficial airfluff.It's like when you get a hug from someone, but it feels like they're doing it as a chore. Or even the people who kiss me hello. I know it's polite and considerate, but for some reason it feels flat. Don't get me wrong, i LOVE hugs. I just feel that i want to find a stronger, closer bond with people in my life. Now how do i do that? OMG I totally am on this level right now...lifes a big circle and so is settling down...right now at this point I want someone I can just kick it with and sleep with on a regular basis , be friends with and chill, I get tired of meaningless sex, hookups and so forth..my rule is never to put all your energy in meeting ppl in clubs, theres alot of fishes and sharks out there, and really not a good idea if ur looking for a consistent , stable relationship, Im not saying its not possible, but i think its very unlikely**Also remember you attract ppl with the same energy as yourself..**my two centsdr. chynadoll______________________________"Im not your bitch dont hang your shit on me" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by chynado11 **Also remember you attract ppl with the same energy as yourself..**my two centsdr. chynadoll______________________________Biatch, are you saying I radiate stupid fag DJ energy??? LMAO ANYTHING but that!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by vixenfoxxy Biatch, are you saying I radiate stupid fag DJ energy??? LMAO ANYTHING but that!!!! haha down girl..lest you be defensive if you really think you do;) dont encourage flamer djs if you dont want attention from themcd________________________________________"Im not your bitch dont hang your shit on me" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by chynado11 dont encourage flamer djs if you dont want attention from themcd________________________________________HAHAHAHAHAHAHA :laugh: It was rape, I swear!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by vixenfoxxy HAHAHAHAHAHAHA :laugh: It was rape, I swear!!! which flamer dj are we talking about exactly?? cd____________________________"Im not your bitch dont hang your shit on me" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by gmccookny I'm tired of hookups, of one-time run-ins. Does anyone else feel this?ABSOLUTLEY.....the novelty wears off. lately it seems that more and more this life is turning out to be just superficial airfluff.the fucking cherry on your purrfect cake statement! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by chynado11 which flamer dj are we talking about exactly?? cd::coughcoughPKMcoughcough::But we know there's like a trillion out there, I probably know half of them Hmmm Chyna who's this? --> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Originally posted by vixenfoxxy ::coughcoughPKMcoughcough::But we know there's like a trillion out there, I probably know half of them Hmmm Chyna who's this? --> hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :laugh: whered u get that ahhahahahaa!!!!!!!!!is it ...could it be?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 I think it's.... it's.... he spins trance and.. and.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 hahahahaaaa is he one of bigmahs acquaintances?? or maybe thorins too hahahahhahaaaaacd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 LoL even WORSE.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 that would only have to be this guy then:monkey:cd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 Hahahahah pretty close. HINT: He's a BIG fawkin HERB!!!!(this is so unnecessary but it feels so damn good lol) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 how well do i know this HERB lol..i know this is unnecessary but hey who fawking cares at this point cd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 5 Author Report Share Posted January 5 WoW, 10 messages back n forth just about an "HERB"?/? He must be worth it Umm, there's AIM for a reason, gals... PS... thanks clubkat:) things have been on my mind lately. did you go to roxy?/? missed it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted January 6 Report Share Posted January 6 Hahaha he's the biggest Herb out there killer! Besides I dont have AIM at work and no one said there was a limit to how many times I could post... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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